photoman43 wrote:
I have both the D810 and the D850 and use both. And I have a D500. The first full frame body I now use is the D850.
If $$ is not a real issue, go for the D850 as it has newer features that make it a "better" camera and its commands and features are closer to the D500, especially AF and flash.
The short answer is:
If you have the funds, the D850 is a definitively better camera in every respect. You will later regret getting the D810 but you will not regret getting the D850 (as long as you are set on a DSLR).
The long answer is:
If you are not set on a DSLR, it might be wise to wait and see what the Z6S and Z7S bodies bring to the game.
They are rumored to have 2 card slots - one will definitively be a CF Express (which on the D850 it is XQD - and supposed to be upgraded but nobody knows when). They are rumored to be adding a fully functional vertical grip and they have updated the battery already to be 20% more capacity. If the AF is significantly improved which we are hoping will be the case as they are rumored to also have dual Expeed processors - one can only hope this means that AF will be much improved. If so, then a Z7S may well be a worthy replacement for the D850 - it basically has the same sensor and with the other features upgraded to match you would then be getting all the benefits of mirrorless as well (EVF, IBIS) - and there are others. With the FTZ adaptor all your modern Nikon lenses will work perfectly - in some cases better. For example shooting the Nikkor 105mm F/1.4 lens is better on my Z camera with the FTZ than it is natively on my Nikon DSLR.
It acquires focus just as fast and focus can be obtained from all over the viewfinder - it is also easier to confirm good focus with 100% magnification in the viewfinder, and of course you can use Eye Detect AF - which is good now, but should become excellent with the dual Expeed processors (hopefully). I personally find shooting with my 105mm 1.4 more enjoyable when I shoot with it on my Z camera than when I shoot on my DSLR and I get as good and often better results.
If you have 3rd party lenses, all the Tamron lenses except the 90mm Macro (firmware to come soon to fix this) and most the Sigmas work well now with the FTZ.
Additionally, in the mirrorless Nikon world, there is also rumored to be a flagship, fully pro level high megapixel / high frame rate mirrorless coming early next year )Z8/9 - the rumors are not sure). This camera may be Nikon's answer to the Canon R5 - with very high MP and also blazing frame rates - it is rumored to have the 61 MP sensor that is in the Sony A7R4, but I don't know if you really need 61MP over 45MP - really depends on what you are doing. The good news is that Nikon offers RAW in Large, Medium and Small, so even the 61 MP camera in Medium RAW may be something like 30MP which is a nice compromise giving a little higher resolution than a typical 24MP (which is already very good).
Finally, there is also supposed to be a D880 coming early next year to replace the D850, and it is supposed to also have the 61MP sensor from the Sony - again you can shoot Medium RAW if this is too big for you. For example, shoot Medium RAW for portraiture, events etc and then use Large RAW for landscape, architecture and product (if need be) etc. The D880 will likely otherwise be everything that a D850 is through the optical VF and with the live view it will be most everything (almost - no IBIS,EVF) that a Z7S is.
I am guessing (just a guess) that the D880 will be the last DSLR that Nikon makes and probably the ultimate Full Frame DSLR ever to be made (from any manufacturer). Also, once it comes out, even if you are satisfied with the D850, the price on the D850 may well drop - certainly in the used market - as it will no longer be the newest / latest and greatest.
My guess is that you are better off waiting (if you can) until April / May of next year and then assessing all of your options - as there will likely be many more options by that time than there are now.
If you must get a camera now, and it is definitely between D810 and D850 - then it is really a no brainer for the D850.
Hope this helps,
-B