CatMarley wrote:
I don't think either of my kids saw it as meritorious. When Mary volunteered to go, I asked her why do you want to leave your own kids, (4,6 and 9)? She said "Other mother's kids are getting blown to pieces and someone has to take care of them. If not me, then who?" She saw it as her duty as part of the military reserve - a duty as a citizen of her Nation. Nothing special about it. Just like cleaning her room as a kid.