AndyH wrote:
Disagree completely. I've only ever disputed two transactions on eBay and got a prompt and courteous refund on both occasions. Vetting the seller helps, of course, but eBay and PayPal back up the transactions. In fact, I am a little reluctant to sell on eBay because they seem to bend over backwards on behalf of the buyer.
Andy
This has been my experience as well. On the other hand, I doubt that the OP can expect to get anything more out of this than the bid money and any shipping cost being returned.