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Oct 31, 2011 09:59:50   #
Chip
 
Whether the parents see you or not you should let them know that you took pictures. What if someone else saw you and goes to the parents as you are leaving? In my opinion that would be even harder to explain. I have no problem with the candid shot as long as you go to the parents immediately, otherwise it looks like you may be trying to hide something.

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Oct 31, 2011 10:07:39   #
SloppyJoe Loc: Walkertown N.C.
 
I agree with Chip. I know that with children, sometimes the shots are better when not orcrastrated, but the person taking the photos should be obligated to show the parents the pictures and make shure that it is ok for him/her to keep them.Thats just comon curtisie. (sorry my spelling is not that correct).

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Oct 31, 2011 10:16:14   #
Elle Loc: Long Island, NY
 
Common sense and courtesy. I'm surprised at how many with children lean to feeling so strongly about photos of children having fun at an amusement park or other public place having pictures taken by another photographer and will keep that in mind for myself. I guess it's the sign of the times. We always ask permission when a child is singled out and never have been refused.

It is not surprising that a photographer might be turned down at a school event when asking permission. The school must protect itself since its location is known. I can think of a few other venues where camera use is denied even though it might be desireable from the photographer's viewpoint.

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Oct 31, 2011 10:20:33   #
George H Loc: Brooklyn, New York
 
keithsmom wrote:
PS: regarding photographing kids at school..
I asked permission to photograph my grandson at pre-school while he was participating in various activities..
I was given a stern NO..citing privacy of the other children,
I was allowed to photograph him in the room, with only his teacher in the photo. after the session, she reviewed the photos, gave me her email address so we could share.
the same rules applied at outdoor activity time..
there was no problem with the graduation events..and most parents were happily clicking away for pics of their kids and their friends..
as stated above..
common sense and courtesy most often will prevail in getting the photos you seek..
thanks..
Loui&#9829;
PS: regarding photographing kids at school.. br I ... (show quote)


Mom,
You were not in a public place, so permission had to be given, also since the teacher was not the parent of the other children she could not give you permission to shoot.

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Oct 31, 2011 10:34:21   #
DSLRChuck Loc: Wisconsin
 
alann wrote:
This thread is getting to be very entertaining. :)


Yes, very. Just like the real people in the world. many times VERY ext-ream.

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Oct 31, 2011 10:47:25   #
lindysuewho
 
I think there is a huge difference between having kids in a shot and focusing on a child that isn't yours.

I don't care what the law is, it's just polite to ask. And if you don't have time, show the parent the shot afterwards and offer to send it to them.

I think you people are all acting like you are some important person out there shooting and should be allowed to do as you wish.

DSLRChuck wrote:
Again folks. Let's get real here. Pics are taken ALL the time in public with kids in them, and they aren't finding out who the parents are prior to taking the pic. I think you all know this is the case. Your kids and others. Even you who say you always ask first and shoot later are yanking my chain and your own. Go to a school event, shoot pics of your kids and grand kids. Then later look at your pics. I'll bet you have lots of kids in your pics next to and around your kids who you don't even know who the parents are much less even asking their permission to take their pic. I'm not saying it's wrong to ask first, but let's be real here, and honest.
Again folks. Let's get real here. Pics are taken A... (show quote)

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Oct 31, 2011 10:49:37   #
Rip Tragle Loc: Estes Park, CO
 
And how do you like children Mr.Fields?
…….. Parboiled.

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Oct 31, 2011 10:50:00   #
carlreno2
 
I agree he was totally out of line.

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Oct 31, 2011 10:52:36   #
photogrl57 Loc: Tennessee
 
KristynD1980 wrote:
I took my kids to my favorite photo spot last weekend to get some nice fall photos. (I have a set of almost 3-year-old twins and a 15 month old). My son was pulling a wagon with his sisters in it and I was carrying my gear and some props out to the spot. This spot is very popular and there were about 6 other photographers there. As we were walking, one of them stopped what he was doing and snapped a few pics of my kids, particularly my son who was pulling the wagon. Maybe he was just photographing the "idea" for one of his future clients (little boy with wagon, etc)? Although it was a nice compliment that he noticed my kids, I think he should have asked first.

What do you think? I'm a little sensitive to people taking photos of my kids because I don't know what they might be taking the photos for. Just wondered what other photographers and other parents thought. Thanks!
I took my kids to my favorite photo spot last week... (show quote)


When I was growing up my ancestors believed that photographs took away part of your soul. As a result I never take pictures of people (adults or children) without asking their permission first. Ya just never know how it's going to affect somebody.

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Oct 31, 2011 10:53:41   #
DSLRChuck Loc: Wisconsin
 
"[quote=lindysuewho]I think there is a huge difference between having kids in a shot and focusing on a child that isn't yours.

I don't care what the law is, it's just polite to ask. And if you don't have time, show the parent the shot afterwards and offer to send it to them.

I think you people are all acting like you are some important person out there shooting and should be allowed to do as you wish."


I don't see myself as more or less important than anyone. But YES, it's called freedom.

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Oct 31, 2011 10:56:52   #
DSLRChuck Loc: Wisconsin
 
When I was growing up my ancestors believed that photographs took away part of your soul. As a result I never take pictures of people (adults or children) without asking their permission first. Ya just never know how it's going to affect somebody.[/quote]



Wow, Just wow. To each his own.

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Oct 31, 2011 11:33:49   #
alann Loc: Virginia
 
Thanks DSLRChuck; I was beginning to feel all alone!

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Oct 31, 2011 12:41:24   #
jolly1
 
DSLRChuck wrote:
When I was growing up my ancestors believed that photographs took away part of your soul. As a result I never take pictures of people (adults or children) without asking their permission first. Ya just never know how it's going to affect somebody.

Wow, Just wow. To each his own.[/quote]

Pardon me but I am curious. When shooting a crowd scene, just how do you manage to get permission from everyone before they start getting away from you. And what about street scenes in a foreign country where you might not speak the language? And what about locations where there are
reinactment groups putting on shows? I can just picture you chasing actors all over the Civil War battle fields trying to get their permission.

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Oct 31, 2011 14:39:06   #
blackmtnman
 
I've argued this on a number of sites.

As was said, in a public setting no permission is needed. For young children, I would ask, just courtesy.

I've had people tell me if I took a shot of their kids or grandkids without their permission, my camera would end up on the ground, broken.

My reply was, I'm a pretty big guy. You would end up on the ground also broken, and face a civil lawsuit for breaking my D700 and one of my expensive lenses.

Last time I was hassled about this I was shooting some kids in a skate/BMX track grabbing air. The hasslers were several gang member types, sitting on the side not even skating or riding. Baggy pants halfway to their knees, you know the type.

I politely told them I didn't need their permission. They kept yapping. When I got out of my truck, they decided to leave.

My conclusion was they were involved in some shady deals and did not want a record of their faces. I wasn't even shooting at them.

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Oct 31, 2011 14:53:58   #
jolly1
 
Rip Tragle wrote:
And how do you like children Mr.Fields?
…….. Parboiled.





Rip, I don't know about you and your imaginary Mr. Fields, but
personally, I love children - depending on how they're cooked!

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