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Nov 9, 2023 19:16:39   #
Horseart Loc: Alabama
 
(and who even cares), but for some reason unknown to me or anyone else, I feel like saying this.
It's sad!
I don't care how puffed up you are about your own excellence as a photographer, (pro or not), it can't be a good thing to downgrade someone else's work with snarky comments. You know who you are. You don't care that we know who you are.
Sometimes we admire a person simply because we admire their talent or skill as a great photographer, but when they make snarky remarks to someone who is just enjoying photos they made and so happy that they got them, they are stealing that person's joy.
This happens here too often and makes me wonder what kind of person feels good about doing a thing like that!
We may admire your work as a gifted photographer from now on but some of us will surely cease to admire you as the photographer you are, because of your pathetic attitude toward others.
That's all. I truly feel like I have not stepped on any toes that did not deserve it.
To the rest of you, I will keep looking at and enjoying your photos.

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Nov 9, 2023 19:25:47   #
Mike D. Loc: Crowley County, CO.
 
That's why we call them trolls, Jo and your will notice that, more often than not, these people rarely, if ever post anything.

Talking smack is so much easier than putting things out there that may no meet their own standards. lol

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Nov 9, 2023 19:32:41   #
Horseart Loc: Alabama
 
Yes some are trolls and that happens everywhere, but when some of the regulars here do that, it's just sad Mike. Thanks for looking and commenting. I expected to be snarked right out of the gate.

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Nov 9, 2023 19:38:07   #
Longshadow Loc: Audubon, PA, United States
 
Horseart wrote:
(and who even cares), but for some reason unknown to me or anyone else, I feel like saying this.
It's sad!
I don't care how puffed up you are about your own excellence as a photographer, (pro or not), it can't be a good thing to downgrade someone else's work with snarky comments. You know who you are. You don't care that we know who you are.
Sometimes we admire a person simply because we admire their talent or skill as a great photographer, but when they make snarky remarks to someone who is just enjoying photos they made and so happy that they got them, they are stealing that person's joy.
This happens here too often and makes me wonder what kind of person feels good about doing a thing like that!
We may admire your work as a gifted photographer from now on but some of us will surely cease to admire you as the photographer you are, because of your pathetic attitude toward others.
That's all. I truly feel like I have not stepped on any toes that did not deserve it.
To the rest of you, I will keep looking at and enjoying your photos.
(and who even cares), but for some reason unknown ... (show quote)

Love it!

To answer one question, the person that has a superiority complex loves telling other people what they did "wrong".
To wit, if the person shot it the way the "suggesting person" stated, he wouldn't be his own person, he'd be that person.

As a complement one statement, we might like their photography, but dislike their personality.

Sadly, there are too many people in the world that make me more glad I'm me.
Sometimes it takes stepping on toes to get people's attention.
Other people require a 2x4.

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Nov 9, 2023 19:41:51   #
Horseart Loc: Alabama
 
Longshadow wrote:
Love it!

To answer one question, the person that has a superiority complex loves telling other people what they did "wrong".

As a complement one statement, we might like their photography, but dislike their personality.

Sadly, there are too many people in the world that make me more glad I'm me.
Sometimes it takes stepping on toes to get people's attention.
Other people require a 2x4.


Exactly! Thank you.

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Nov 9, 2023 20:24:13   #
kpmac Loc: Ragley, La
 
I agree, Jo. There are many images I don't especially care for but I never demean the image or the photographer. If they like it enough to post it then why take away their joy in it? This site is not a professional photo site where we are posting images for sale or to win any contests. It should be fun to post here. There.... I'm done.

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Nov 9, 2023 20:40:55   #
Longshadow Loc: Audubon, PA, United States
 
kpmac wrote:
I agree, Jo. There are many images I don't especially care for but I never demean the image or the photographer. If they like it enough to post it then why take away their joy in it? This site is not a professional photo site where we are posting images for sale or to win any contests. It should be fun to post here. There.... I'm done.


Not everyone is obsessed with perfection.
Thank goodness.

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Nov 9, 2023 20:51:13   #
Horseart Loc: Alabama
 
kpmac wrote:
I agree, Jo. There are many images I don't especially care for but I never demean the image or the photographer. If they like it enough to post it then why take away their joy in it? This site is not a professional photo site where we are posting images for sale or to win any contests. It should be fun to post here. There.... I'm done.


Well said! I agree. Thank you!

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Nov 9, 2023 20:52:20   #
Horseart Loc: Alabama
 
Longshadow wrote:

Not everyone is obsessed with perfection.
Thank goodness.


100% correct. Where would we all be if they were?

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Nov 9, 2023 20:57:45   #
Longshadow Loc: Audubon, PA, United States
 
Horseart wrote:
100% correct. Where would we all be if they were?


We'd all be in a bad horror story.......

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Nov 9, 2023 21:02:56   #
Horseart Loc: Alabama
 
Longshadow wrote:

We'd all be in a bad horror story.......


For sure!
I had the best hubby for 56 years, but if he had been looking for perfection, he'd have kept looking!!! I'd have been an old maid!!!

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Nov 9, 2023 21:04:32   #
Longshadow Loc: Audubon, PA, United States
 
Horseart wrote:
For sure!
I had the best hubby for 56 years, but if he had been looking for perfection, he'd have kept looking!!! I'd have been an old maid!!!


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Nov 9, 2023 22:16:25   #
13 Loc: I am only responsible to what I say..not what
 
Horseart wrote:
(and who even cares), but for some reason unknown to me or anyone else, I feel like saying this.
It's sad!
I don't care how puffed up you are about your own excellence as a photographer, (pro or not), it can't be a good thing to downgrade someone else's work with snarky comments. You know who you are. You don't care that we know who you are.
Sometimes we admire a person simply because we admire their talent or skill as a great photographer, but when they make snarky remarks to someone who is just enjoying photos they made and so happy that they got them, they are stealing that person's joy.
This happens here too often and makes me wonder what kind of person feels good about doing a thing like that!
We may admire your work as a gifted photographer from now on but some of us will surely cease to admire you as the photographer you are, because of your pathetic attitude toward others.
That's all. I truly feel like I have not stepped on any toes that did not deserve it.
To the rest of you, I will keep looking at and enjoying your photos.
(and who even cares), but for some reason unknown ... (show quote)



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Nov 9, 2023 22:23:13   #
Horseart Loc: Alabama
 
13 wrote:


Thank you 13.

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Nov 9, 2023 22:44:32   #
bikinkawboy Loc: north central Missouri
 
Unfortunately the internet emboldens some people. They wouldn’t say that face to face. I don’t have to like a person to respect them. But respecting someone for their abilities or talent doesn’t mean I think they are a great person.

I’ve told my kids that they need to be better than other people. Not because of their name, race or money but in that they will do things other people won’t do and they won’t do things other people will do. And that they don’t tell people they are better, but to keep their mouth shut and let their actions speak for themselves. What annoys me is people that perform “selfless” acts of kindness and generosity but then post on Facebook and twitter telling the world about how kind and generous they were. In those cases they are doing it for themselves and the homeless person they bought a meal for was just a fortune beneficiary of their search for praise.

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