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Nov 12, 2023 22:00:31   #
Zooman 1
 
The message here could be applied to everyday living, not just among photographers.

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Nov 13, 2023 07:42:10   #
Bartulius Loc: Bristol, Ct
 
Our Senior Center has a photo club. A few of the members are knowledgeable enough to teach classes. "Hands on" is the best way for me to learn. We watch videos from pros and go on local field trips. We "criticize with kindness" in the classroom. We go from fundamentals to trick shots and back to basics when new members join.

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Nov 13, 2023 09:18:09   #
Dan5000 Loc: New Hampshire
 
Well said

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Nov 13, 2023 09:23:11   #
Rascal gene
 
Horseart wrote:
(and who even cares), but for some reason unknown to me or anyone else, I feel like saying this.
It's sad!
I don't care how puffed up you are about your own excellence as a photographer, (pro or not), it can't be a good thing to downgrade someone else's work with snarky comments. You know who you are. You don't care that we know who you are.
Sometimes we admire a person simply because we admire their talent or skill as a great photographer, but when they make snarky remarks to someone who is just enjoying photos they made and so happy that they got them, they are stealing that person's joy.
This happens here too often and makes me wonder what kind of person feels good about doing a thing like that!
We may admire your work as a gifted photographer from now on but some of us will surely cease to admire you as the photographer you are, because of your pathetic attitude toward others.
That's all. I truly feel like I have not stepped on any toes that did not deserve it.
To the rest of you, I will keep looking at and enjoying your photos.
(and who even cares), but for some reason unknown ... (show quote)


Why I do not post on here!
Rascal gene

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Nov 13, 2023 22:50:47   #
Wallen Loc: Middle Earth
 
Horseart wrote:
(and who even cares), but for some reason unknown to me or anyone else, I feel like saying this.
It's sad!
I don't care how puffed up you are about your own excellence as a photographer, (pro or not), it can't be a good thing to downgrade someone else's work with snarky comments. You know who you are. You don't care that we know who you are.
Sometimes we admire a person simply because we admire their talent or skill as a great photographer, but when they make snarky remarks to someone who is just enjoying photos they made and so happy that they got them, they are stealing that person's joy.
This happens here too often and makes me wonder what kind of person feels good about doing a thing like that!
We may admire your work as a gifted photographer from now on but some of us will surely cease to admire you as the photographer you are, because of your pathetic attitude toward others.
That's all. I truly feel like I have not stepped on any toes that did not deserve it.
To the rest of you, I will keep looking at and enjoying your photos.
(and who even cares), but for some reason unknown ... (show quote)


There are a bunch of them here who want to be looked up on by standing over others. Some will even lie and reverse the tables on you just to keep their high chairs and proudly call themselves teachers.

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Nov 13, 2023 22:52:39   #
Wallen Loc: Middle Earth
 
Longshadow wrote:

Other people require a 2x4.

With barbed wire & nails sticking out...

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Nov 13, 2023 22:55:14   #
Wallen Loc: Middle Earth
 
bikinkawboy wrote:
Unfortunately the internet emboldens some people. They wouldn’t say that face to face. I don’t have to like a person to respect them. But respecting someone for their abilities or talent doesn’t mean I think they are a great person.

I’ve told my kids that they need to be better than other people. Not because of their name, race or money but in that they will do things other people won’t do and they won’t do things other people will do. And that they don’t tell people they are better, but to keep their mouth shut and let their actions speak for themselves. What annoys me is people that perform “selfless” acts of kindness and generosity but then post on Facebook and twitter telling the world about how kind and generous they were. In those cases they are doing it for themselves and the homeless person they bought a meal for was just a fortune beneficiary of their search for praise.
Unfortunately the internet emboldens some people. ... (show quote)



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Nov 14, 2023 08:03:39   #
Stash Loc: South Central Massachusetts
 
None of us has ever taken the perfect photograph and more likely than not, we never will. I don't have the right to destroy someone's effort because I think my idea is better. Sometimes folks ask for helpful criticism and that's fine. The emphasis is on helpful. Mean and cruel should never be acceptable.

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