Horseart wrote:
I don't give smart answers unless someone is terribly rude. I'm not shy, so if they are rude, I know how to handle that. As far as hurt feelings...mine never get hurt. Psychology teaches us that we should be responsible for our own happiness and in control of our own feelings.
Compared to a lot of things people do to each other, asking ignorant questions should just amount to a small giggle. There are many things much worse that the co-worker could have said.
And there are many worse things that I could think of in response. If you allow the a--holes of the world continue on their merry way, then the situation never improves. Mark Twain once remarked that if you make everything foolproof, you end up over-populating the earth with fools. Same goes for thoughtless morons, etc.