As I've aged, I've become kinder to, and less critical of, myself. I've become my own friend.

I have seen too many dear friends leave this world, too soon; before they understood the great freedom that comes with aging.

Whose business is it, if I choose to read, or play on the computer, look at hundreds of photos from people I don't really know on UHH until 4 AM, or sleep until noon? I will dance with myself to those wonderful tunes of the 50s, 60s & 70s, and if I, at the same time, wish to weep over a lost love, I will.

I will walk the beach, in a swim suit that is stretched over a bulging body, and will dive into the waves, with abandon, if I choose to, despite the pitying glances from the jet set. They, too, will get old.

I know I am sometimes forgetful. But there again, some of life is just as well forgotten. And, eventually, I remember the important things.

Sure, over the years, my heart has been broken. How can your heart not break, when you lose a loved one, or when a child suffers, or even when somebody's beloved pet gets hit by a car? But broken hearts are what give us strength, and understanding, and compassion. A heart never broken, is pristine, and sterile, and will never know the joy of being imperfect.

I am so blessed to have lived long enough to have my hair turning gray, and to have my youthful laughs be forever etched into deep grooves on my face. So many have never laughed, and so many have died before their hair could turn silver.

As you get older, it is easier to be positive. You care less about what other people think. I don't question myself anymore. I've even earned the right to be wrong.

So, to answer your question, I like being old. It has set me free. I like the person I have become. I am not going to live forever, but while I am still here, I will not waste time lamenting what could have been, or worrying about what will be. And I shall eat dessert every single day (if I feel like it).

Sarge69

First I want to say I don't argue politics or religion on forums and don't go to threads that are oriented that way. I usually don't respond to them, but it's getting a little ridicules that it's become so that anything mentioned in this forum ,no matter how innocent it is,there's always somebody that has to bring POLITICS into the thread.Come on guys.It doesn't matter how much you hate the guy,whether it's because of his politics, views on life,family,religion,or whatever (RACE?) remember that the majority of the American People voted him in.It doesn't matter what you think about the man ,he's going to be your leader for almost another 4 years and instead of all the complaining now,if you were that against the man being YOUR ELECTED LEADER, you should have maybe spent more energy trying to get votes and support for the candidate of you liking.