letmedance wrote:
I just told you that I read the story Day before on a different site, and also the one in the OP. Teach met wit parents and said he had no problems calling her by here new name and would be careful not to use the pronouns HE, She, Him , Her, etc. In what seemed to be an accident about to happen he shouted a warning suddenly. You of all folks should not be offended by talking down or accusing as you are very accomplished in both categories, seemingly polite but still guilty.
The instructor absolutely refused to refer to the student as he or him. He was fired for insubordination. He wasn't fired for accidentally referring to the student as her. He absolutely refused to refer to him as he or him. Insubordination is a big deal.