I just chatted with MS. Definitely, that option of being asked before installing an update has been removed from Win 10.
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Thanks for contacting Microsoft support, my name is Jessie E.. Please allow me a few moments while I review the information you provided.
sure. Thanks Jessie
You're welcome.
Upon checking here you want Windows 10 to ask our permission before updating, is that correct?
yes. I have win10 pro. That used to be an option, but I cannot find it anymore.
I do apologize for the inconvenience. Yes the option has been removed for the security purposes. Basically Windows 10 will automatically download the update, however you will have the option when to install that update and you can set when your pc will restart.
What update removed that option?
The update will be the November update so called 1511, however the current update now is 1607.
Would I have a record of that particular update?
I'm so sorry however it is a system update, which update the build version of Windows, it's like installing a new Operating System.
OK. Thanks for the information, Jessie.
You're very much welcome.
By the way here's your case number 1366996626, this will serve as your reference number for this chat.
Mark
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Jackel wrote:
"Second surprise of the day, the "Windows Update" setting no longer appears in my Control Panel! Has anyone else encountered this issue?"
No mention of "Windows Update" appears in my Win10 Control Panel window. So, I've not encountered this problem.