EdM wrote:
About a year or so ago I ran into a lady from the church that I had known, fondly, for years, I pointed my finger at her and said jokingly, you owe me a cup of coffee.. She went off at me for the finger pointing to the point that I have ignored her since... Last week, the word went out, pray for her she has terminal cancer all over.... Sometimes a reaction is caused by things unknown..
Amen to that! When I first knew her, my mother-in-law told me that sometimes when a person reacts negatively for no reason, there may be something negative going on in his/her life. I've found that to be true, which has helped me to not take offense and just let it go. And then there's people who are just ornery and not nice..... Oh well.... :roll: