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Apr 17, 2024 10:15:07   #
Islandgal Loc: Vancouver Island, British Columbia. Canada
 
jinx wrote:
Dear Friends, if you would please put Harold in your thoughts and prayers. He is in hospital and suffering.


Will do, as long as it takes. A hug for you too.

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Apr 17, 2024 10:22:36   #
Islandgal Loc: Vancouver Island, British Columbia. Canada
 
Nitz8catz wrote:
Sometimes it is nice to just sit and enjoy the conversation.
I'm like you. I've always made enough money to support my family, so I don't qualify for anything now that I am older. The support that people get from the provincial government here isn't enough to live on, which is why most of them are couch surfing with friends or banding together to rent an apartment and then cramming their entire family into one bedroom while another family is in the next.!
It's annoying that things don't seem to be getting any better. Maybe DD is right, don't watch the news!!!!
Love you back, Susan, raging and all
Sometimes it is nice to just sit and enjoy the con... (show quote)


Life for me has been a struggle, but I always felt fortunate to have what I have, and even more so that the world is how it is today. The benefits.. that struggle made me a strong person. I am comfortable now, but quite often feel guilty being so. xoxo

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Apr 17, 2024 10:46:15   #
Islandgal Loc: Vancouver Island, British Columbia. Canada
 
jollypolly wrote:
Sorry your cat suffers too. They told me yesterday and today car might be ready but I don’t get a call. Seems like last time. Tried all day to think positive but finally took a nap. I’m not a positive thinker because so much negative has happened all my life. But I’m still here.

Mooch seems to be drinking and litter had wet spots. Food looked nibbled at. He has been in my lap not in a curled up ring on back of couch as before. So good sign.

Got in a stressful conversation with a friend who said I sounded depressed. I told her I’m not depressed I’m upset which is different. People always try to make me do what they think. it’s annoying. Usually I ignore it but I was so stressed I told her strongly I’m not Depressed. She likes to be bossy then apologize. I told her apology helps the apologizer feel better but doesn’t help the person getting the apology. Like if someone kicks you the body still hurts even if there’s an apology. She keeps on being bossy and apologizing. I let it go and we chatted today. I’m usually not like this. I sure am stressed.
Sorry your cat suffers too. They told me yesterday... (show quote)


Stress and anxiety can be as hard as depression Polly, and can make physical illness worse or even cause it, probably don't have to tell anyone that. Once you realize it though, and try to tweak how you think, it can be a game changer. So easy to get stuck and play over the intrusive thoughts that are negative, it almost becomes habit as a coping skill...I had to learn this myself. The brain is a tricky! Have you considered cognitive therapy as a way to help? I too want to see you have happier days. Hugs

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Apr 17, 2024 10:49:36   #
Grandma Susan Loc: NE UK
 
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Apr 17, 2024 10:55:40   #
Islandgal Loc: Vancouver Island, British Columbia. Canada
 
Another sunny but chilly morning. Beautiful blue sky! I've been working in the garden, it was ignored for almost 4 years and I'm bringing it back to life. So surprising to see things I'd thought I'd lost coming back! As I work, ideas start popping into my head on what to plant and small changes to make. DH and I did everything together and I miss him, it takes much more time and energy for me to do it myself... but I have a vision on how I'd like to make it mine. Doing more veggies this year. A small new area I had dug up by a back hoe last year will be planted with all different types of sunflowers until I can amend the soil properly.
Max and I are off for our walk now.. have a good Wednesday sisters. xoxo

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Apr 17, 2024 11:05:29   #
Grandma Susan Loc: NE UK
 
96.
I’ve had a busy day. Cassie came at 8.45am for me and she’s been good today, bless her. She thinks her partner might be out of work at the weekend, so that will mean no money coming in, it’s a worry. I went into Karen’s for a chocolate and left her to it. Andrew went down to the beach with Brie.its not just cold here, it’s freezing cold. We are getting same weather as last year where we live. Snow is forecast for the weekend.


One of the carers who went to Wendy’s I knew of her. Her mother in law, Sheila used to run that little bingo on a Tuesday afternoon before she died. Can you remember the carry on wee had with that. Hahaha…guaranteed two hours of giggle. And all for $1 a line and $2 full board. Hahaha. Oh they were the days. It’s a small world. 🌎


When I left Wendy’s I called at Asda for a couple of things as I’m running low, and Karen wanted a bottle of ribena. I had two bags of stuff, so when I eventually got home 🏡 I gave Andrew a ring and he came for his drink and carried my bags into the kitchen for me. I’d be lost without Karen, Andrew, Margret and John. I’ve very good neighbours and friends. I’m a bit off balance today, it’s the thought of shopping 🛍️ haha. Doubt I won’t get Stephen shopping this weekend, he’s not due home until late Saturday night. His body clock will be way out because there’s eight hours difference, he may want to sleep after. 16hr flight. He’s crazy if he goes into work on Monday, but he IS stupid, but his dad was, work used to come first in this house 🏠 better than being lazy I suppose.


I’ve treated myself to some Cadbury dark ice cream lolly’s. I’m going to have one now, and catch up on here. I hope I don’t lose this message. Stay safe, luv yawl, look out for each other. Try to stay calm and find your inner soul….love yawl.

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Apr 17, 2024 11:13:24   #
Grandma Susan Loc: NE UK
 
jinx wrote:
Dear Friends, if you would please put Harold in your thoughts and prayers. He is in hospital and suffering.


Oh my jinx……my thoughts are with you both, we are here for you love, use us anytime. No good telling you not to worry. Giving you a hug. Xx

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Apr 17, 2024 11:15:51   #
Grandma Susan Loc: NE UK
 
Islandgal wrote:
I is meditating in treez now and feeling fine!


He’s one fabulous looking doggy……rather have him than babies……then again I’d rather have babies than go to the dentists.

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Apr 17, 2024 11:17:36   #
Grandma Susan Loc: NE UK
 
jollypolly wrote:
Sorry your cat suffers too. They told me yesterday and today car might be ready but I don’t get a call. Seems like last time. Tried all day to think positive but finally took a nap. I’m not a positive thinker because so much negative has happened all my life. But I’m still here.

Mooch seems to be drinking and litter had wet spots. Food looked nibbled at. He has been in my lap not in a curled up ring on back of couch as before. So good sign.

Got in a stressful conversation with a friend who said I sounded depressed. I told her I’m not depressed I’m upset which is different. People always try to make me do what they think. it’s annoying. Usually I ignore it but I was so stressed I told her strongly I’m not Depressed. She likes to be bossy then apologize. I told her apology helps the apologizer feel better but doesn’t help the person getting the apology. Like if someone kicks you the body still hurts even if there’s an apology. She keeps on being bossy and apologizing. I let it go and we chatted today. I’m usually not like this. I sure am stressed.
Sorry your cat suffers too. They told me yesterday... (show quote)


That’s telling her jolly…..good for you

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Apr 17, 2024 11:30:00   #
Grandma Susan Loc: NE UK
 
Islandgal wrote:
Another sunny but chilly morning. Beautiful blue sky! I've been working in the garden, it was ignored for almost 4 years and I'm bringing it back to life. So surprising to see things I'd thought I'd lost coming back! As I work, ideas start popping into my head on what to plant and small changes to make. DH and I did everything together and I miss him, it takes much more time and energy for me to do it myself... but I have a vision on how I'd like to make it mine. Doing more veggies this year. A small new area I had dug up by a back hoe last year will be planted with all different types of sunflowers until I can amend the soil properly.
Max and I are off for our walk now.. have a good Wednesday sisters. xoxo
Another sunny but chilly morning. Beautiful blue ... (show quote)


Good for you getting on with things. It’s not an easy thing to do. I must admit you seem to have a lot more about you than I do…..I think your brave, wouldn’t mind being a bit like you…..x

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Apr 18, 2024 00:04:39   #
jollypolly
 
Nitz8catz wrote:
That other place really slapped your car back together. I hope this mechanic can get it all back together easily.
When there was a garage in Port Hope that had only female mechanics, it was so busy, it ended up moving to a larger town (that's what happens to anything good in this town)
Golf course restaurants always have really good food, but it is also usually expensive. I guess they figure if you can spend money on golfing, you can pay a little more at the restaurant.
I'm glad your's didn't think that way.
That other place really slapped your car back toge... (show quote)


I was happy for a minute then I got home and the heater wasn’t working nor the air conditioner. I called and they said bring it back tomorrow. Then I got a photo from the man who uses my garage. There is a board came off the garage roof. He can’t get the key to the garage to work and we took ours to him it didn’t work either. He will replace it. Then we went to go to get gas and a motor symbol came on the dashboard. I got so scared I drove right home not shopping at bj. I can’t get one job done but another pops up. So discouraged. Well tomorrow it may be corrected. I hope.

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Apr 18, 2024 00:06:37   #
jollypolly
 
Nitz8catz wrote:
We thought momma-cat was deaf too as she was ignoring us, but she heard mum when she was outside.
It's great that the tax people can work around your lack of car.


I need to get the papers to them hope I get the car back fixed tomorow I was going to have dinner with friends at Mexican restaurant but think I will cancel. I want to stay at the garage to try to get them to fix it tomorow not park it. They got paid so might take other cars who haven’t paid yet.

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Apr 18, 2024 00:07:57   #
jollypolly
 
jinx wrote:
I think you get a lot of advice from well meaning people, like me. We feel for you and wish we could make your life less stressful.


Thank you it’s just nice to be heard and often I get great suggestions here. No one is bossy here.

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Apr 18, 2024 00:09:27   #
jollypolly
 
jinx wrote:
Dear Friends, if you would please put Harold in your thoughts and prayers. He is in hospital and suffering.


I will try to take it a day at a time. I feel better when I can do that.

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