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Apr 9, 2024 09:11:33   #
NJFrank Loc: New Jersey
 
Scruples wrote:
Making your child happy and enabling dangerous behaviour are two entirely different creatures. It is important to keep one’s eyes and ears open and one’s mouth closed and appear stupid and foolish than to close one’s eyes and ears then to open your mouth and remove all doubt!!


Unfortunately in some cases parents can’t make that distinction. This is not the only example of that.

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Apr 9, 2024 10:22:24   #
Scruples Loc: Brooklyn, New York
 
NJFrank wrote:
Unfortunately in some cases parents can’t make that distinction. This is not the only example of that.


The only gratifying example I can offer was my wife’s and my encouragement to have our children go to college.
My daughter learned to be a music teacher and is now doing what she loves at a wonderful school. My son is an engineer and very happy with the firm

Not at all fun and games for us. It was a tough road for all but we now reap some of the rewards.
Some joy and pleasure comes after sweating.

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Apr 9, 2024 10:33:51   #
nimbushopper Loc: Tampa, FL
 
Scruples wrote:
The only gratifying example I can offer was my wife’s and my encouragement to have our children go to college.
My daughter learned to be a music teacher and is now doing what she loves at a wonderful school. My son is an engineer and very happy with the firm

Not at all fun and games for us. It was a tough road for all but we now reap some of the rewards.
Some joy and pleasure comes after sweating.


Amen to that!

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Apr 9, 2024 10:49:26   #
Scruples Loc: Brooklyn, New York
 
nimbushopper wrote:
Amen to that!


SO MOTE IT BE!

All to many people feel that if they can do a “thing,” they are an accomplished person. Let’s look at a guitar player. A person can pick up the guitar and learn to play. That doesn’t mean he can join a group tomorrow. A person can buy a camera and think they are a master. First you need to lean basics. Then you need to read the manual. Then you need to practice days on end for years. Maybe you will be notable a couple of years from now!

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Apr 9, 2024 11:05:14   #
Shellback Loc: North of Cheyenne Bottoms Wetlands - Kansas
 
Scruples wrote:
I can’t take credit for the curriculum. It was created by the Airplane Owners and Pilots Association. I would like to propose it to the New York City Board of Education and local high schools.

Good luck - I’m sure the students would enjoy the opportunity

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Apr 9, 2024 11:36:21   #
Scruples Loc: Brooklyn, New York
 
Shellback wrote:
Good luck - I’m sure the students would enjoy the opportunity


Thank you very much!

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Apr 9, 2024 13:10:28   #
twb930s Loc: Aldie, Virginia
 
CHG_CANON wrote:
To be adult is to be capable of operating a drop-down box.

To be adult is to be capable of recognizing an error and edited the nonsense within the UHH 60-ish minute edit window.


To be an adult also means to be a little humble and give others a break when (and if) they make a small mistake. Humble is the key word here.

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Apr 9, 2024 13:57:20   #
nervous2 Loc: Provo, Utah
 
I enjoy Jerry's stuff wherever found.

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Apr 9, 2024 14:06:37   #
twb930s Loc: Aldie, Virginia
 
nervous2 wrote:
I enjoy Jerry's stuff wherever found.



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Apr 9, 2024 14:38:05   #
olddutch Loc: Beloit, Wisconsin
 
jerryc41 wrote:
I watch several reports of plane accidents. Yesterday I watched an analysis of a crash that killed two young men. The young pilot was more interested in the prestige factor of being a pilot, taking lots of selfies while being instructed. His instructor managed to get him to settle down, somewhat. Eventually, the instructor quit when the boy showed up with alcohol on his breath. The flying school dropped him.

What to do? Simple. The father bought his son a plane and found another instructor. Although he had gotten some kind of certificate, he had restrictions because of his lack of experience - no passengers, for example. Well, around 3:30 on morning, he and a friend drove to the airport and took off on a dark, cloudy night - not far from a military Air Force base. He never used the radio despite being called several times by the Air Force base. Flying in dark, cloudy skies, he eventually spiraled into the ground, killing himself and his 19-year-old friend.

Everything was wrong with this story. The kid was irresponsible, and the father supported him by finding different instructors as one after another quit and then buying him a plane. Imagine the parents waking up in the morning and learning that their son had crashed and killed himself.

This analysis was on "Pilot Debrief" on YouTube. Hoover gives a good analysis of crashes, often pointing out shortcomings in the investigation. He's a former F-15 pilot.
I watch several reports of plane accidents. Yeste... (show quote)


One thing that a flight instructor cannot teach is common sense. I have a sticker in my log book that reads “Learn from the mistakes of others as you won’t live long enough to make them all yourself”….. I watch a lot of those videos myself.

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Apr 9, 2024 16:14:46   #
dustie Loc: Nose to the grindstone
 
nervous2 wrote:
I enjoy Jerry's stuff wherever found.


Adult-friendly, without even having to go to those adult sections....normally family-friendly.
😊 😊

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Apr 9, 2024 18:33:47   #
Reuss Griffiths Loc: Ravenna, Ohio
 
CHG_CANON wrote:
To be adult is to be capable of operating a drop-down box.

To be adult is to be capable of recognizing an error and edited the nonsense within the UHH 60-ish minute edit window.


Does being an adult include being a pedant? Apparently in some cases it does.

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Apr 9, 2024 21:30:20   #
TOG Loc: Sacramento Valley
 
PERFECT Answer!!

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Apr 10, 2024 10:13:19   #
PhotogHobbyist Loc: Bradford, PA
 
Could the parents possibly be considered culpable for the death of their son's friend who died in the crash? Very much like the case of the parents of the school shooter who was given a gun by the parents and they disregarded the warning signs of depression or other mental problems. The shooter and his parents have been sentenced to prison terms. It seems that the two cases are similar.

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Apr 10, 2024 11:16:09   #
Shellback Loc: North of Cheyenne Bottoms Wetlands - Kansas
 
PhotogHobbyist wrote:
Could the parents possibly be considered culpable for the death of their son's friend who died in the crash? Very much like the case of the parents of the school shooter who was given a gun by the parents and they disregarded the warning signs of depression or other mental problems. The shooter and his parents have been sentenced to prison terms. It seems that the two cases are similar.


I would guess that would depend on the lawyers and the pull of the parents - your average parents cannot buy airplanes for their kids...

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