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Nov 3, 2011 21:00:35   #
David707 Loc: Medford OR
 
Lmarc wrote:
MWAC wrote:
Dear UHH Friends:

I have decided not post the PM Julie sent to Me, it will serve no purpose but to show that I can lower myself to her level. I am more than postitive she will return to grace us with her presence and once again we will get to see her wonderful rants.

Till then stay fun!


I am, and hopefully shall remain, in complete and total "ignore mode"!



Ditto!

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Nov 3, 2011 21:04:36   #
kateyface Loc: Washington state
 
If I am not mistaken, didn't Julie say she was not really here for photography but was under false pretenses? Maybe I am confused but I will try to find where she said she was here for Marketing or something.
Lmarc wrote:
A few nights ago I PM'd Julie. I thought then, and still think she's not a bad person, just maybe a bit high-strung and overly sensitive. She asked me to post it in the forum. This was my message and a couple of her replies:

Original PM: "Julie...please forgive me if this PM is out of line, but I just want to ask that you may not let a conflict with one or two or three people here destroy you on this site, or even worse cause you to leave. You are a GOOD photographer, and I, and I'm sure lots of others, could learn a lot from you. I think you realize that, but you must also realize that no one else's opinion of your work really matters. You're posts are much better than anything I've been able to do.

If I have offended you then I am truly sorry. I would just like to see the upbeat fine photographic work you showed you're capable of a short while ago. If you can develop a "teflon coating" and let all the crap just slide off, you have a friend here. "

Her reply: "awww yes… I dont have clue what im doing…I have been hit hard yes..but by gosh I just a dam chick with a cam that loves the world and takes pics…..i sry to offend you..but I felt it ness to expose the jerks that treat us no nothings..like …like….like..well nothing..pls be friend me!!! I would be most honored!!! im just a tad mouthy..but pls tell me to shut up!!! )"

I offered to help her with her photos if I can, though I'm not that good, and to ask again to just let the garbage die.

Julie: "ohh thank you!!! I shall…I have been getting personal messages..from a few..I guess cuz i have hit a few nerves… I honestly just want to learn and need real truth….Thanks for your post and yr time!!"

Julie tonight: "can I ask a question? why cant you post this in public? I cried for two nights straight and almost threw my cam away…((

I asked what she wanted me to post.

Julie: TRUTH!!!. in a nice way!! this is a hobby not my life.. Good God….I'm here to learn and enjoy and have fun…. nothing more )

I hope I'm not opening another can of worms. I'm posting this with Julie's permission and request. I do not wish to be a part of a forum fight. I'm doing this because she asked, and I do believe it helps to try to understand each other.
A few nights ago I PM'd Julie. I thought then, an... (show quote)

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Nov 4, 2011 00:18:44   #
mommy115 Loc: California
 
Ignore mode works for me. She's the first and probably the only one who will ever be on that list. Life is too short!

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Nov 5, 2011 15:20:29   #
English_Wolf Loc: Near Pensacola, FL
 
My truck of salt and internet etiquette,,,

regardless of the person a PM is rarely welcomed, whatever the content, I personally am leery when I get one so I often do not answer and delete (I do peek).

For a woman the case is even worse (I am a 55 years old ornery critter as you all have figured out). Many PMs are less than nice and since they are invisible they reacts, with good reason, with ignore, delete, tell the person off or whatever.

I read her 'it is a test' thread, weird but not weirder than hello I am Sam and I am a friend of Jack. (read serial killer names here - son of Sam and Jack the ripper).

Anyway, instead of creating a thread named 'Julie' and slam the person it would have been best and more considerate to publish this in the context that prompted the publication in the first place.

That said, if you look at her profile, you would notice that she is active on the board.

I do not know who the heck she is, if she young or old, cute as a button or an unkempt hag and I don't care. For all I know she also could be some fat guy having fun.

Who cares???

In the end Julie may be a nice person, if you give her a chance instead of being so grumpy, vindictive and mean.

My motto is always make friend with the people I do not like so that I will learn the real reason why I dislike them. (95% of the time the result is: because I am biased asshole)

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Nov 5, 2011 15:30:07   #
English_Wolf Loc: Near Pensacola, FL
 
MWAC wrote:
She needs to move on.


You all need to move on, there is no depth of field here!

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Nov 6, 2011 22:31:18   #
dragonfist Loc: Stafford, N.Y.
 
If everyone just ignores her it will end. As long as she has an audience she will continue with the game she is playing. I suggest all hands act like they are blind and deaf to her posts. If she doesn't have an audience hopefully she will find another place to vent her frustrations with life.

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