Ellen101 wrote:
I take my Nikon camera and cell phone everywhere. I often run into what I think might be a good shot. I always ask permision to take someone's picture.
Here is what I am now dealing with: Recenty two older women ( ages 81 ans 92) asked me to take their photos for a project they were doing. I replied "Sure", They came to my home where i have some plain background set ups.
The shoot went well. They wanted themselves in a very close up pose cheek to cheek.
One of them came with me to get it printed. She was very happy with way it prints came out. She framed it herself and put it on display at our City Hall Art Gallery. The other lady is now very angry with me for making her look old.
She is 92 and does have some lines on her face. Now she is ending our friendship,
I did tell these women that I do not do much photo shop stuff except cropping. The 81 year old is OK with the photo.
What can I do ?
we know most people are NOT satisfied with the way they look in photos.
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A good question for me. Part of my day job is portrait photogahy- in a way, your dilemma is the story of my life- kinda!
First of all, a quote from Rodney Dangerfield "Some of y'all have "NO REPECT". Don't go making disrespectful. NOT NICE!
Vanity and self-image are an integral part of successful portrat photograhy, thatis, from the customers' or subjects' point of view. Some folks, regardless of age, want to be somewhat glamorized or at least, photograher at best. of view. When you shoot a portrait on request, you are not necesserally a documentarian or journalist- you become a stylist.
There are many approaches- digital retouching, soft focus methods, soft or well-placed lighting, and cam based on facial analysis. Usually, it's a combination of two or more of the techniques.
Some possess more vanity than others. A simple discussion when planning a shoot helps just as the person the subject prefers a realistic character study or a softer less detailed version of themselves.
Self-image is tough stuff. Some folks envision themselves as they were when they were younger. Some are happy in their own skin while others want some softening and some expect "plastic surgery".
This is my "philosophy" and the only blurb I have on my portrat price list and promotional material:
" I photograph you were as you were, as you are, and as you would like to be remembered"
Besides technical and artistic skills, compassion, patience, and understanding are the most important traits of a good portrat photographer.
No big deal- do a re-shoot- no ego, disappointment, or conflict! Just stand behind your work and please your client.
95 years old- this will likely be her last portrait- make it a good one!
Also- suggests a 3/4 length pose. Use props, have her doing somethg, reading, knitting, writing, somethg. Tell a story. Shoot lots- the law of averages my be on your side.
Get some Portrt-Pro software. It can help retouch portraits with preset levels of softness.