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Dec 1, 2019 12:17:19   #
Annie-Get-Your-Gun Loc: Byron Center, Mi
 
SWFeral wrote:
Did you just add your location? I never saw it before. I am in New Mexico, a mountainous southwestern part of it; I love it. My heart was here before I ever discovered it. I am far removed from Santa Fe, never go there.

It breaks my heart too to know that you had to leave Peek-A-Boo with someone else, but I do know that cats, probably more than dogs, are figure-outers. Much as they dislike change they are natural survivors and therefore adaptable (though I've heard of some who are traumatized by a change in residence). Peek is very beautiful. Might he be a Maine Coon?

I'll tell you about my pets and you have to tell me about the retirement community, why you moved there, how you chose it, if you like it. I ask because my mother is a bitter 86-year-old: long story. It breaks MY heart to spend time with her, yet I am committed to making her last years good. But one cannot fix another person's life. I do my best.

So, my pets, and I think you've seen them: The wonderful and challenging Ted, a mixed-breed dog who reluctantly accompanies me on my hikes; and Leaf, who I can only half claim, a beautiful cat who showed up at my house a terrified kitten last Thanksgiving. I share my life with other animals but these are the ones I post about.

As I am cagey about my personal life, I will share more through private messages. Meanwhile here are Ted and Leaf, just shots randomly chosen.
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Hi Kris. Ted is so handsome and looks like a fun friend. What a precious kitty. And he's a lucky kitty since you found him - or should I say he found you. What is that sweet kitty's name?
My kitty is actually a feral puddy-cat. There was a stray cat who frequented my yard. It was not friendly. I started feeding it and eventually she let me touch her. She would even come inside my sunroom. One morning I went out on the deck and she was nursing 5 babies. To make a long story short - I chose one kitty and that was Peek-A-Boo. He grew to be a fat cat tho' nothing like a Coon.
I moved into Byron Manor because I could no longer do my housekeeping and yard work. At the time my daughter worked at the Manor, caring for alzheimer and dimentia patients. I adjusted quickly. Now and then I think of what I gave up. My home was a 2-story farm house over 100 years old and my yard was full of flower beds. I cried myself to sleep thinking of Peek. Sometimes I think of an item I had that was sold and remind myself it's a material thing I can't take it with me when God calls me home.
Think that pretty much covers it and it's lunch time. The meals aren't always to my liking. My daughter shops for groceries and sometimes I eat in my room.
Why aren't you sharing news about other pets? I'm nosey. Gotta go - Love, Anne

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Dec 1, 2019 14:16:58   #
Annie-Get-Your-Gun Loc: Byron Center, Mi
 
fbeaston wrote:
Damn ... he saw a lot ... I only went to Vietnam. Please thank him for his service as well. Hope you had a wonderful holiday.


It is sad to have 3 wars in a man's life time. My husband didn't survive open heart surgery.
I had a wonderful Thanksgiving with family and friends. Roasted turkey and all the trimmings. I pigged out.

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Dec 1, 2019 15:22:44   #
SWFeral Loc: SWNM
 
fbeaston wrote:
Well, I for one, have enjoyed reading the dialog Annie, that you've had with SWFeral, although I haven't commented. Prime reason is I'm afraid I'm not the "artistic type" ... but I stumbled on the dialog & have enjoyed it. I to say 2 things ... first, thanks for your service Annie (I too was in the Corps & am getting along in years although not to your level). And SWFerel ... I tip my hat to you for doing what's right for & with your mother ... (from experience, I recognize it's not easy being a caregiver when they aren't positive ... so kudos to you for being there). It says a lot about you. Best to you both.
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I too apprecate your comments. I thought I had responded last night but don't know where my post disappeared to! I'm not sure how artistic either Annie or I are but we've had a pleasant chat. Thanks for understanding about Mom.

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Dec 1, 2019 16:43:10   #
fbeaston Loc: Vermont
 
SWFeral wrote:
I too apprecate your comments. I thought I had responded last night but don't know where my post disappeared to! I'm not sure how artistic either Annie or I are but we've had a pleasant chat. Thanks for understanding about Mom.


SWFeral ... You're welcome ... I guess I could say "been there ... done that" ... I took care of my Dad for nearly 10 years ... although I was lucky. He wasn't always cantankerous. He died at 93 a few years ago. Caregiving is a tough, sometimes full contact sport. I came to appreciate the impact of losing independence ... & I realized that the people closest to us, can sometimes be the hardest on us. So it does require some patience & forgiveness. But in the end, if you're lucky, you will feel like I did, which is glad I did it, but wouldn't want to do it again. Best of luck to you.

PS: Annie ... sorry for your loss. Keep those posts coming. ;)

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