So bkyser, I had to take some time and get back to you. Lots of things to fess up to. 1 - hadn't been to a wedding in a long time, this was the first of all the cousins in that age group. 2 - for me, times have changed. It seems in the digital age quantity of pictures is way more important and no one gets the old traditional media anymore. 3 - the photographer does have a legit business website and the wedding photos are all nicely displayed in a gallery for purchase. 4 - Can't argue with the results because they were all close in focus and properly lit. AND YES, I have to admit it - the wedding was for them and the couple as I saw them this past weekend were quite happy. Satisfied customers are what build a business and so they have recommended her to some of their friends.
Lastly for any other photographers that followed my rant - times have changed and I have to admit it. I'm now living in fear of the next nephew getting married in November - out on the left coast! For those who chimed in, thank you.
bkyser wrote:
That's a good way to word it, very clear when talking to the couple. I do agree, try to be invisible, but if you HAVE to get in there to get the shot, get there, do it, and get out.