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A PM from English-Wolf.... the reason I will no longer be sharing pictures of my children.
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Nov 26, 2011 17:55:19   #
sinatraman Loc: Vero Beach Florida, Earth,alpha quaudrant
 
hear hear, ditto. when someone proves to be a jerk, the rest of the community should know it. dont want to know don't read the post. I consider MWAC to be a friend, and like the Nato alliance, an attack on one is an attack on all.

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Nov 26, 2011 19:10:29   #
Sher Loc: Colorful Colorado
 
English_Wolf wrote:
Did I say they needed fixed? I said What can you do to make them less preeminent. Quite a difference.
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They are likely this way I hope she will outgrow them but in the mean time, lowering the white intensity in them may help the whole effect**.

THAT is about photo itself, not the child.


So you are telling her to change what her beautiful child looks like? That makes no sense........

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Nov 26, 2011 19:26:23   #
Lmarc Loc: Ojojona, Honduras
 
[quote=MWAC][quote=Carioca]
MWAC wrote:
hey you know what was my request? For posters not to make rude remarks about the way my children look... guess we both aren't going to get what we want.

Carioca if you don't like my thread/post you can always back out and not reply. Pretty easy.


Likewise, if you don't like a comment about your child, you can always delete it and not reply. That's easy, isn't it?

Do you practice, or just preach?[/quote

When some SOB decides to make a comment on my child I will come out with both guns a blazing, always have, Always will.

offer C&C on my image, I can take it with my big girls panties on. Tell me my child has large teeth and they need to be fixed and make reference to changing her outward appearance because it shows love and I'm going to let the whole board know what an ass wipe you really are.

I would like to say thank you too everyone who has offered support to me with learning about photography, but due to this recent attack on my child I will be leaving the board.[/quote]

I considered PM'ing you but I won't. If I can't say it here, I don't need to say it at all.

I just want to ask you to reconsider and to PLEASE not leave the forum. You have been a good influence on the group in general and lots of us learn a lot from you. We've lost far too many good people already, for reasons right or wrong. Please don't add to that list.

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Nov 26, 2011 20:11:27   #
English_Wolf Loc: Near Pensacola, FL
 
Sherrie wrote:
English_Wolf wrote:
Did I say they needed fixed? I said What can you do to make them less preeminent. Quite a difference.
Quote:
They are likely this way I hope she will outgrow them but in the mean time, lowering the white intensity in them may help the whole effect**.

THAT is about photo itself, not the child.


So you are telling her to change what her beautiful child looks like? That makes no sense........

What I am saying is that her teeth are preeminent and by a slight change of shade/ brightness whatever so she could avoid some of the attention. I did not mention altering the size or anything like that, this is part of the kid.

I did not imply anything about her child being pretty or not. The odd thing is I have never cared one way or another about cute or not, pretty or not, it a photograph, nothing else.

Where have you seen me make any comment about the cuteness (or absence of) on anything? I knew it was a sensitive subject so I went into PM vs public. THAT was my mistake.

Next time, for anyone? Who cares about the other feelings, someone brought out the teeth problem anyway. I suspected it had to do with something out of control when I said:
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They are likely this way I hope she will outgrow them
so where is the critique on the child?

In a way it is the same as kid who still has its baby teeth, big head small teeth. So what? As to children who have a gap, lost tooth or not, so what? Now should we make sure we avoid the subject or suggest ways to mitigate the look? That was my intent.

Bad mother? (Since I am at it) where do you see that? Because I say 'take your distance?'

The whole thing is ridiculous. BUT MY DOING Not because I was rude, I was not, not because I was insulting, I was not, but because I caused her reaction. I was leery sending this. It is MY DOING because I was stupid enough to think she would see what my intent was and clicked 'send'. Error of judgement on a person's character. This is where my fault lies. Would I retract anything I said? No. Would I have sent it, knowing what has happened? No.

All the rest? I stopped caring. One can interpret anything I say even in what I type now, so what is the point?

Waiting for the next flame now.

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Nov 26, 2011 20:19:00   #
Holdrens Loc: originally Wellsboro, Pa
 
IMHO----
1. English_Wolf has created an issue in two threads recently and both times has caused a great ruckus in what WAS an awesome forum. I for one would like to see him blocked or kicked out or whatever an Admin has to do to remove a person.
2. MWAC, PLEASE don't leave because of this arrogant, pompous a$$! I for one have enjoyed your photos as well as advice. As a newbie, you have helped me in several ways and would love to see you stay.
That is my 2 cents.

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Nov 26, 2011 20:59:16   #
English_Wolf Loc: Near Pensacola, FL
 
Three threads if you want to count. One when I said: I do not like the pope and
what he represents
another about the obama thing (censored by the admin - with good reasons ) so what is this thread you are talking about???

I never noticed you so... s'plain, please.

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Nov 26, 2011 21:09:33   #
ftpecktim Loc: MONTANA
 
sinatraman wrote:
hear hear, ditto. when someone proves to be a jerk, the rest of the community should know it. dont want to know don't read the post. I consider MWAC to be a friend, and like the Nato alliance, an attack on one is an attack on all.


ditto :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup:

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Nov 26, 2011 21:11:40   #
English_Wolf Loc: Near Pensacola, FL
 
You are stating to all look like buffoons, you know that?

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Nov 26, 2011 21:13:00   #
ftpecktim Loc: MONTANA
 
Holdrens wrote:
IMHO----
1. English_Wolf has created an issue in two threads recently and both times has caused a great ruckus in what WAS an awesome forum. I for one would like to see him blocked or kicked out or whatever an Admin has to do to remove a person.
2. MWAC, PLEASE don't leave because of this arrogant, pompous a$$! I for one have enjoyed your photos as well as advice. As a newbie, you have helped me in several ways and would love to see you stay.
That is my 2 cents.


:thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup:

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Nov 26, 2011 21:16:57   #
sinatraman Loc: Vero Beach Florida, Earth,alpha quaudrant
 
even forest gump is smart enough to know to never critize a child's apearence to the mother, no matter how good your intentions were, it is like saying yes when your wife asks do these jeans make me look fat? I truly do not understand what you have accomplished to make you this arrogant. whether or not you are arrogant, its enough that you are percieved that way. can I seriously suggest the book and sign up for the dale carnige course "how to make FRIENDS and influence pople." It might be helpfull. You can be in the right all you want but if it atagonizes others it's not smart. I am hoping mwac comes back. the list of gone but not forgotten keeps growing, Bd, fivedawgs, bob m, joso III, ccc, etc. And the ones who stay aren't contributing like they used to such as gessman, or MrNotNoBuddah. we can not afford to run off anymore talented, helpfull people.

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Nov 26, 2011 21:19:10   #
sinatraman Loc: Vero Beach Florida, Earth,alpha quaudrant
 
English_Wolf wrote:
You are stating to all look like buffoons, you know that?


i can see how wrong I was saying you are angry and bitter. forgive me

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Nov 26, 2011 21:29:18   #
Holdrens Loc: originally Wellsboro, Pa
 
English_Wolf wrote:
Three threads if you want to count. One when I said: I do not like the pope and
what he represents
another about the obama thing (censored by the admin - with good reasons ) so what is this thread you are talking about???

I never noticed you so... s'plain, please.


Really????....You have kept track yourself of those that you have pissed off? WOW, you ARE an arrogant, narcissistic, pompous a$$!!!!!!!!!!
I was referring to the thread that started this and the one that Sinatraman told you off. Take a hint....and if you don't understand hints, here it is as bluntly as I can put it....
GO AWAY!!!!!! MANY people here DO NOT like you or your comments.

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Nov 26, 2011 21:35:37   #
English_Wolf Loc: Near Pensacola, FL
 
Sinatra told me off???? I'll like to know when. As to your assessment? weird.

I recall one that should worry you all mothers (or grand mother) the one were one guy takes only 'fresh young girls' and post them here for appreciation (not c&c because the truth is hard to swallow). Why should you be concerned because your daughters will be teenagers then young adult and men like him will pray on them? the funny part?

MWAC wrote:
sorry I just wanted to let you know that I found it funny that you hit a nerve with him, he is so full of himself, it's nice to see someone put him in his place.

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Nov 26, 2011 21:38:12   #
sinatraman Loc: Vero Beach Florida, Earth,alpha quaudrant
 
I didn't catch that pediophiles post, if i had hell would have been raised.

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Nov 26, 2011 21:40:19   #
English_Wolf Loc: Near Pensacola, FL
 
Not pedophile, just total dis-respect for women.

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