We were up at Formby (Lancs) - it is the only place I have seen them but have seen quite a few there over the years and love them.
I can't remember which make camera I was using at the time but my guess is it was on "auto" or "tv" as if out for a day relaxing and whatever wildlife appears suddenly those are my usual choices.
I was trying to photograph some birds and looked down to find this little fellow checking my coat pocket out.
Wonderful to see - Many thanks for sharing.
What a beautiful Cat - I am so sorry to hear about your loss.
I wish I could say anything to help but it would be useless so can only think of you.