Gene51 wrote:
You have no rights. Get used to it. You're lucky that she didn't pull out a handgun and shoot you - Florida and their "stand your ground" B.S. makes that entirely possible.
The best approach is to be humble, apologize profusely, and if you are successful at de-escalating the situation, provide her with your card, and offer her a free print, or do as you did - delete the image in front of her, apologizing all the way.
Confrontation and trying to explain why you are right (and presumably she is wrong) is NOT a good approach, and will only serve to further agitate the mom. There are numerous reasons why someone would not want to be photographed, or have their family members photographed - witness protection and orders of protection in custody battles. You will never win, and you will risk escalating to the point of creating a scene and possibly getting arrested. It's just not worth it.
A better approach, if the situation lends itself to it, would be to inform parents watching their kids that you are working on a project that involves kids at play, offer then your business card, and would they object to having their children (and themselves) photographed. have model releases ready just in case. If they object, just move on. In this case it IS better to ask permission than to beg forgiveness.
While it is perfectly legal to take these pictures, and the parent has no legal footing with which to object, do you really want to defend your right to take these pics in a court of law? That can get expensive really fast. Common sense needs to prevail. However, if you are in Georgia, in 2010 it became illegal to anyone other than a parent to photograph children. Similar legislation was attempted in New Jersey in 2011, but failed to pass.
Remember, you have no rights. Repeat, you have no rights. Of course you have rights, but in such a contest, you will lose the first battle. And someone being photographed has every right to ask you to not photograph them or their family members. The law may be on your side, but common sense dictates that confrontation and escalation is not a good option.
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Gene I normally take to heart most of what you say regarding photography and regard you and your opinions highly. But with your first paragraph of this thread I totally disagree. First off, Florida’s (or any state’s Stand your Ground) law has nothing whatsoever to do with this situation. At no time would either person be entitled to shoot the other person. There is a disagreement with one person claiming she will call the police. Yes, she certainly has that right just as the photographer has the right to take pictures. Your claims of it falling somewhere in a Stand your Ground law have no basis at all.
Secondly, we all have rights. Yes they are challenged at times but only by always sticking up for our rights do we get to keep those rights. Believe me they are worth fighting for.
The OP was not taking photos of children. He had no reason for handing out a business card. You, as (I assume a professional photographer) might have a reason to do that. But consider a child molester going to a park filled with kids, handing out business cards with fake information and parents then offering up their kids to be photographed. Business cards can be printed for around $10.00 per thousand, a cheap price for a pervert.