I couldn't agree more. Choice of words and how they are presented has more impact than most people realize. Critique can always be passed on without making the person feel bad. But then there are people who have thicker skins than others. Just a thought
Victoria1233 wrote:
I think the whole issue is learning how to write on the internet (as opposed to talking face to face in the real world). I can type a comment with a warm friendly smile on my face, but the receiver of my comment can't see my face.
if someone wants a critique give them one, but start your opening paragraph without something nice like "Interesting image" or "Nice image, but may I suggest that you..............".
I've found on another forum I belong to, that it's your last sentence in your comment that the viewer remembers and gains an idea of what type of person you are, so be nice. I keep forgetting........ but..... there are smilies or emoticoms to soften your words too. Use a 'smilie' or the words 'big grin' to let viewer know your are joking or have a smile on your face.
There are ways of phrasing your sentences on the internet to get the point made without being abrupt, rude or negative. You can write negative comments in a Positive way.
One needs to keep in mind that you don't know the personal circumstances of the 'newcomer'. For example......you don't know that I have constant pain, fatigue, serious health problems, am very short-sighted & have had back surgery which makes me stiff, so I can't often 'get down low' to shoot a subject. Some days my heart condition mean I'm exhausted and huffing & puffing so much I can't hold the camera still. I have a short term memory problem, so can't remember instructions or 'how to' do certain things.
Always be mindful that in being honest, make that honesty constructive (not DEstructive).
And please don't say a photo is fantastic, amazing, stunning, if it clearly is not. That is not helpful.
Just say something ordinary if you want to encourage a new photographer. Find something in the photo to encourage the new photography hobbyist. If a person posts 3 photos and 2 are lousy, just say you think 'the third photo is lovely, but the other 2 photos are a bit too dark - perhaps you could improve them by ........'
Yep, it's all in the way your write.
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