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Nov 7, 2015 08:42:30   #
silverhawk Loc: Born a West Virginian, Living in Virginia
 
Viewed this on facebook and thought I'd share it.....beautiful.. :thumbup: :thumbup:

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Grandpa's Hands
This is beautiful!!!
Grandpa, some ninety plus years, sat feebly on the patio bench. He didn't move, just sat with his head down staring at his hands. When I sat down beside him he didn't acknowledge my presence and the longer I sat, I wondered if he was OK.
Finally, not really wanting to disturb him but wanting to check on him at the same time, I asked him if he was OK.
He raised his head and looked at me and smiled. "Yes, I'm fine. Thank you for asking," he said in a clear strong voice.
"I didn't mean to disturb you, Grandpa, but you were just sitting here staring at your hands and I wanted to make sure you were OK," I explained to him.
"Have you ever looked at your hands," he asked. "I mean really looked at your hands?"
I slowly opened my hands and stared down at them. I turned them over, palms up and then palms down. No, I guess I had never really looked at my hands as I tried to figure out the point he was making.
Grandpa smiled and related this story:
"Stop and think for a moment about the hands you have, how they have served you well throughout your years. These hands, though wrinkled, shriveled, and weak have been the tools I have used all my life to reach out and grab and embrace life. They put food in my mouth and clothes on my back.
* As a child my mother taught me to fold them in prayer.
* They tied my shoes and pulled on my boots.
* They have been dirty, scraped and raw, swollen and bent.
* They were uneasy and clumsy when I tried to hold my newborn son.
* Decorated with my wedding band they showed the world that I was married and loved someone special.
* They trembled and shook when I buried my parents and spouse and walked my daughter down the aisle.
* They have covered my face, combed my hair, and washed and cleansed the rest of my body.
* They have been sticky and wet, bent and broken, dried and raw.
* And to this day, when not much of anything else of me works real well, these hands hold me up, lay me down, and again continue to fold in prayer.
* These hands are the mark of where I've been and the ruggedness of my life.
* But more importantly it will be these hands that God will reach out and take when he leads me home.
* And with my hands He will lift me to His side and there I will use these hands to touch the face of Christ."
I will never look at my hands the same again. But I remember God reached out and took my grandpa's hands and led him home.
When my hands are hurt or sore I think of Grandpa. I know he has been stroked and caressed and held by the hands of God. I, too, want to touch the face of God and feel His hands upon my face.
When you receive this, say a prayer for the person who sent it to you and watch God's answer to prayer work in your life. Let's continue praying for one another

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Nov 7, 2015 09:02:41   #
RS Loc: W Columbia, SC
 
Something inside me says I have seen that - or something similar - a good while back.
Thanks for the posting; it tends to 'hit home' in this part of my life where I now have great-grandchildren and am being 'forced' to realize that I am on the down-hill side of life.
And, I hope you don't mind, but I will also forward it to family members and friends . . .

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Nov 7, 2015 09:20:08   #
Wrangler Loc: North Texas
 
What a great way to start the day. Thank you

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Nov 7, 2015 12:58:18   #
silverhawk Loc: Born a West Virginian, Living in Virginia
 
RS wrote:
Something inside me says I have seen that - or something similar - a good while back.
Thanks for the posting; it tends to 'hit home' in this part of my life where I now have great-grandchildren and am being 'forced' to realize that I am on the down-hill side of life.
And, I hope you don't mind, but I will also forward it to family members and friends . . .

Thanks for all the responses......it kinda' touched me when I read it, too! I'm also on the downhill side, but I remembered watching my Grandpa...quite a few years ago, now.

And, it's OK for anyone to share it...that's how I received it....
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Nov 8, 2015 08:40:28   #
ves Loc: MD
 
Thank you.

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Nov 8, 2015 09:28:02   #
campkid3 Loc: Middle Tennessee
 
Thanks for sharing this! I wish that I had known at least one of my "grandpas"!..... BOTH SETS of my grandparents were dead before I was born.....I truly missed out on a lot of knowledge.

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Nov 8, 2015 10:42:01   #
ebbote Loc: Hockley, Texas
 
That was really good Silverhawk, my prayer is in the mail for you.

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Nov 8, 2015 12:09:02   #
elad Loc: Arizona
 
You're so right, it is very beautiful. I can't wait to share it with my grandfather. Thank very much for posting this!

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Nov 8, 2015 13:33:44   #
raymondh Loc: Walker, MI
 
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Nov 8, 2015 15:13:20   #
JoeV Loc: Wisconsin
 
Thanks Silverhawk. I can relate to so much of this piece.
It also brings to mind a poem I wrote some years ago on a similar theme. Would you mind if I shared it here?

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Nov 8, 2015 17:17:14   #
silverhawk Loc: Born a West Virginian, Living in Virginia
 
JoeV wrote:
Thanks Silverhawk. I can relate to so much of this piece.
It also brings to mind a poem I wrote some years ago on a similar theme. Would you mind if I shared it here?


You can definitely share your poem.....I'm sure everyone will be awaiting it...I am..... :thumbup: :thumbup:

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Nov 8, 2015 17:34:54   #
tenbanshee Loc: Woodstock, IL
 
Very nice thank you for sharing it.
JoeV, please share your poem. I'm sure that other are waiting to read it also.

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Nov 8, 2015 19:52:03   #
DickC Loc: NE Washington state
 
That's great, at 76 I never thought of mine that way but after reading this, I took a good look....and yep, I saw a grandpa's hands!! Thanks for sharing this! :-D :-D

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Nov 8, 2015 21:23:17   #
JoeV Loc: Wisconsin
 
silverhawk wrote:
You can definitely share your poem.....I'm sure everyone will be awaiting it...I am..... :thumbup: :thumbup:


Thanks. I wrote this as a tribute of godly women I have known, my mother among them.

Sure Hands

The baby's hands wer chubby, small,
and hardly good for anything at all...
except of course to help her crawl!

The girl's hands were smooth and fair.
They dressed her little doll
and combed its stringy hair.

The woman's hands were graceful things.
In faith, they folded soon in prayer,
in love received a wedding ring.

Mother's hands were strong and sure.
They made all manner of things,
cleaned all kinds of things,
fixed all sorts of things...
and folded often in prayer.

Mom's hands were strong and sure.
They combed her children's hair,
brushed her own long tresses,
and folded often in prayer.

Mother's hands were strong and sure.
You always found some comfort there
to cope with your distresses,
upheld by hands that folded often in prayer.

Grandma's hands were getting old, for sure,
but busy, strong, and caring,
always quick to find that candy dish,
and folded often still in prayer.

Great-grandmother's hands were pale,
but still sure to find the candy dish,
and caring as you might wish,
and folded often in prayer.

Her hands have come to rest,
folded, frail,
across her burial dress.
Hardly good for anything at all...

they move us nonetheless
and teach a lesson still
on what it means to be a handmaid
of the Lord.

Rest child, rest.
The mighty hands that made all things,
the pierced hands that bore all things,
the caring hands that bear all things,
the hands of Him to whom we turn in prayer,
the graceful hands of Christ,
are strong and sure.

J. Veltman

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Nov 9, 2015 07:53:46   #
silverhawk Loc: Born a West Virginian, Living in Virginia
 
JoeV wrote:
Thanks. I wrote this as a tribute of godly women I have known, my mother among them.

Sure Hands


The mighty hands that made all things,
the pierced hands that bore all things,
the caring hands that bear all things,
the hands of Him to whom we turn in prayer,
the graceful hands of Christ,
are strong and sure.

J. Veltman


Thanks for sharing your very great poem....that's my mom, grandmother and of course my wife all wrapped into one. My Mom was quite religious and also wrote many poems in her later years and could draw the face of Jesus as well as any artist. Maybe I could share some of her poems on UGHH. Thanks again.....everyone will love this as I do.... :thumbup: :thumbup:

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