MWAC wrote:
I think one of the best pieces of advice I ever got when I started taking my photography seriously was if you value your friendship NEVER offer to photograph their wedding. It's just opening a whole big can of worms that if something goes wrong will end your friendship faster than you can say "I Do"
this is the absolute best piece of advice and a prime example of why this forum is so great. on may 28 of this year, my daughter was married...and her best friend volunteered to shoot the wedding. i had dad duties like walking her down the aisle, etc..so me shooting the wedding was out of the question. the wedding pictures turned out awful....blurry, over exposed, under exposed, etc...the only photos that came out decent were a few of them that i took at the reception. her friend had inexpensive equipment...and what was worse, is that she had no idea how to pose the bride and groom...how to use available light with her
equipment, etc....what my daughter received were snaphots and photos the guests took were as good or better than what she took. needless to say........they are still friends, but the level of their friendship has diminished greatly.
there is a reason why there are wedding photographers.....25% is their equipment and 75% is their knowledge and expertise.
i have great equipment and i am no wedding photographer, but am working on it. most what i take are family shots, senior pictures, casual events, and mostly product shots. weddings are a complete different animal. i have shot 3 weddings and they came out ok...not fabulous. they were satisfied. i was a nervous wreck.
but here's the rule of thumb that i live buy...........since quality equipment is available at reasonable prices...everyone has a quality camera and everyone is a photographer of some sorts. when i do senior shots or family photos, product shots.......i have to be able to deliver a product that outshines anyone out there in the audience...and that will differ me between the masses.
look at some of the websites of the pros that are on this forum...best one i've seen is cliffs.
www.CliffLawsonPhotography.comit's never my intention to belittle anyone or any project that someone is ready to jump in to....heck, all photographers have to start somewhere. and also remember, if you are taking a family shot or senior shot or product shot and the photos don't come out great...you can always reshedule a session................weddings you cannot. so you have to rely on your experience, knowledge and talent along with your equipment to get it right the first time.
i have a couple of weddings to shoot this spring and summer....and i am nervous as heck about it. like i said, i have the equipment, but not the experience. for equipment, i take a 5d, 7d, 24-70mm 2.8L, and a 70-200mm 2.8L IS, 2 580 ex2 flashes, some light stands, 2 umbrellas, a wescott apollo 28" softbox and some wireless triggers.
i wish you good luck...and if you are going to do this...i recommend shooting hundreds of photos a day so you can know and control your camera and get a clear, sharp photo every time before the big event comes up.
oh, one more thing..make sure you plan a meeting with your bride and groom and discuss what photos to take and also go out and check out their wedding and reception location and maybe take a few shots to see what you are up against before you get there. arriving at a wedding shoot with a plan is critical.
good luck!!!!
jim