Mogul wrote:
Achammer, you should be commended for your decision. The ears are an effective stairway to the heart, as are the eyes. Perhaps you can put the original video away somewhere and, God Forbid, should the father die, you can give them the full remembrance package. Should you ever need to do this, I assure you they will not even notice the out-of-focus aspect. You should enjoy a sense of pride and well-being because of your generosity and wisdom.
Thanks Mogul. Very nice compliments and a good idea. I doubt I will know when the father passes on, but I keep everything I do anyway, so I will always have it in case anyone ever wants anything again or for whatever else might pop up.
There have been many more comments since I posted last, again leaning both ways, so I want to thank everyone again and make sure everyone knows how appreciative I am. As a brief repeat on my decision: I have decided not to include the actual video in the slideshow, but as many of you have suggested (an idea I hadn't thought of), I have saved the audio as an mp3, so I will be syncing some good still images to coincide with the speech he is giving, along with some faint music playing in the background. I think that is a compromise I like the best. Not quite a good as the actual video, but close.