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Aug 11, 2013 05:50:02   #
TucsonCoyote Loc: Tucson AZ
 
Travesty, I thought you were going to offer a fix or pose a question at the end but you just want to be friends....OK, no
problem there ! lol

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Aug 11, 2013 07:06:55   #
K2mbs Loc: Southern Tier of, NY
 
Travesty,
I never realized I was truly an introvert, but as I read your post expecting the next "myth" to go off track....they continued to apply to me greatly.
This was truly fascinating.
One aspect not factored in this analysis was the type of personality the introvert usually has.
I would guess a type 'A' ?

Type A (wikipedia)
The theory describes a Type A individual as ambitious, rigidly organized, highly status conscious, can be sensitive, care for other people, are truthful, impatient, always try to help others, take on more than they can handle, want other people to get to the point, proactive, and obsessed with time management. People with Type A personalities are often high-achieving "workaholics" who multi-task, push themselves with deadlines, and hate both delays and ambivalence.
In his 1996 book, Type A Behavior: Its Diagnosis and Treatment, Friedman suggests that Type A behavior is expressed in three major symptoms: free-floating hostility, which can be triggered by even minor incidents; time urgency and impatience, which causes irritation and exasperation usually described as being "short-fused"; and a competitive drive, which causes stress and an achievement-driven mentality. The first of these symptoms is believed to be covert and therefore less observable, while the other two are more overt. [4]

I definitely am type 'A'... and when it comes to friends, when applied to the introvert analysis....Life can be frustrating within friendships, because of the high standards held for friendship.
Many people simply do not have that high standard for friendships I personally do.
I found that this instant gratification era with face books meaningless 'friending', and text messaging, and cell phones in general...quality interaction has suffered.
I feel distracting meaningful relations.

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Aug 11, 2013 07:42:58   #
ellenryan1
 
Apparently at least one third of the population is introverted. A great book on this topic is "Quiet, the Power of Introverts in a World that Can't Stop Talking" by Susan Cain. Enjoy!!

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Aug 11, 2013 08:19:14   #
Travesty Loc: Chicago Burbs, USA
 
rook2c4 wrote:
I don't know. When I used to work at a photography lab, I interacted with a lot of professional photographers, and many were anything but introvert. Especially those that specialized in family portraits. You can't be all too introverted if you have to commandeer a family of strangers all afternoon and keep them in good spirits throughout the shoot. You really need to be the out-going fun type to pull it off successfully.


That's why I stated " I feel a lot of Photographers also fall into this category"
I don't think it applies to all, but feel photographers fall in to the art category which makes up a lot of Introverts...

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Aug 11, 2013 08:20:50   #
Travesty Loc: Chicago Burbs, USA
 
TucsonCoyote wrote:
Travesty, I thought you were going to offer a fix or pose a question at the end but you just want to be friends....OK, no
problem there ! lol

No fix... We just need to do our thing and live with it... :) and keep people wondering...

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Aug 11, 2013 09:17:00   #
Mercer Loc: Houston, TX, USA
 
Travesty wrote:
I am sharing this because I read it recently via a friend and know I fall into this category which I think is highly misunderstood..... I feel a lot of Photographers also fall into this category....
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Introverts are people whose energy tends to expand through reflection and dwindle during interaction. They often take pleasure in solitary activities. The archetypal artist, writer, sculptor, engineer, composer, and inventor are all highly introverted. An introvert is likely to enjoy time spent alone and find less reward in time spent with large groups of people. They prefer to concentrate on a single activity at a time and like to observe situations before they participate. Introverts are easily overwhelmed by too much stimulation from social gatherings and engagement. They are more analytical before speaking.

Introversion is not the same as being shy or being a social outcast. Introverts prefer solitary activities over social ones, whereas shy people (who may be extraverts at heart) avoid social encounters out of fear, and the social outcast has little choice in the matter of his or her solitude.

Great list of myths about introverts

Myth #1 – Introverts don’t like to talk.
This is not true. Introverts just don’t talk unless they have something to say. They hate small talk. Get an introvert talking about something they are interested in, and they won’t shut up for days.

Myth #2 – Introverts are shy.
Shyness has nothing to do with being an Introvert. Introverts are not necessarily afraid of people. What they need is a reason to interact. They don’t interact for the sake of interacting. If you want to talk to an Introvert, just start talking. Don’t worry about being polite.

Myth #3 – Introverts are rude.
Introverts often don’t see a reason for beating around the bush with social pleasantries. They want everyone to just be real and honest. Unfortunately, this is not acceptable in most settings, so Introverts can feel a lot of pressure to fit in, which they find exhausting.

Myth #4 – Introverts don’t like people.
On the contrary, Introverts intensely value the few friends they have. They can count their close friends on one hand. If you are lucky enough for an introvert to consider you a friend, you probably have a loyal ally for life. Once you have earned their respect as being a person of substance, you’re in.

Myth #5 – Introverts don’t like to go out in public.
Nonsense. Introverts just don’t like to go out in public FOR AS LONG. They also like to avoid the complications that are involved in public activities. They take in data and experiences very quickly, and as a result, don’t need to be there for long to “get it.” They’re ready to go home, recharge, and process it all. In fact, recharging is absolutely crucial for Introverts.

Myth #6 – Introverts always want to be alone.
Introverts are perfectly comfortable with their own thoughts. They think a lot. They daydream. They like to have problems to work on, puzzles to solve. But they can also get incredibly lonely if they don’t have anyone to share their discoveries with. They crave an authentic and sincere connection with ONE PERSON at a time.

Myth #7 – Introverts are weird.
Introverts are often individualists. They don’t follow the crowd. They’d prefer to be valued for their novel ways of living. They think for themselves and because of that, they often challenge the norm. They don’t make most decisions based on what is popular or trendy.

Myth #8 – Introverts are aloof nerds.
Introverts are people who primarily look inward, paying close attention to their thoughts and emotions. It’s not that they are incapable of paying attention to what is going on around them, it’s just that their inner world is much more stimulating and rewarding to them.

Myth #9 – Introverts don’t know how to relax and have fun.
Introverts typically relax at home or in nature, not in busy public places. Introverts are not thrill seekers and adrenaline junkies. If there is too much talking and noise going on, they shut down. Their brains are too sensitive to the neurotransmitter called Dopamine. Introverts and Extroverts have different dominant neuro-pathways. Just look it up.

Myth #10 – Introverts can fix themselves and become Extroverts.
A world without Introverts would be a world with few scientists, musicians, artists, poets, filmmakers, doctors, mathematicians, writers, and philosophers. That being said, there are still plenty of techniques an Extrovert can learn in order to interact with Introverts. (Yes, I reversed these two terms on purpose to show you how biased our society is.) Introverts cannot “fix themselves” and deserve respect for their natural temperament and contributions to the human race. In fact, one study (Silverman, 1986) showed that the percentage of Introverts increases with IQ.
I am sharing this because I read it recently via a... (show quote)


...and your point is? :shock:

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Aug 11, 2013 09:29:23   #
Wickspics Loc: Detroits Northwest Side. Cody High School.
 
Many Landscape Photographers are, it is not uncommon.

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Aug 11, 2013 09:55:55   #
Travesty Loc: Chicago Burbs, USA
 
Mercer wrote:
...and your point is? :shock:

My point is, I think there are a lot of people out there thinking there is something wrong with them because of other peoples perception.. There are many that do not even know they are Introverts and when they see something like this they feel included or relieved that they are not alone.. Certainly when it hits on all 10 of these points...

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Aug 11, 2013 10:29:37   #
ottopj Loc: Annapolis, MD USA
 
Everything Travesty said is true. It comes from the Theory of Carl Jung, Swiss Psychiatrist/Psychotherapist, put into practice by Isabel Briggs Myers, an American author and co-creator of a personality inventory known as the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator. Briggs Myers created the MBTI with her mother, Katharine Cook Briggs.

It is a fascinating instrument. Many business/colleges/organizations use it to help people understand others and themselves.

For a short blurb on it, go to: http://www.myersbriggs.org/my-mbti-personality-type/mbti-basics/

To go more indepth and take the inventory on line,go to: http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/jungtype.htm

Once you understand your type an dothers it makes life and relationships quite a bit easier and more productive.

Enjoy, it's a lot of fun.

PS: ignore the detractors. This inventory is helpful.

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Aug 11, 2013 11:07:58   #
Dave in Utah Loc: Southern Utah
 
Guilty of 1 thruogh 9. Now I understand. Thank you. Dave

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Aug 11, 2013 11:15:27   #
ottopj Loc: Annapolis, MD USA
 
I used the MBTI (Myers Briggs Type nventory) a lot in my practice of ove 25 years. It never ceased amazed me how many people finally understood why there was so much turmoil within their family of origin, co-workers and friends.

Many commented, "So, that's why my husband/wife acts like that!"

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Aug 11, 2013 11:53:02   #
Travesty Loc: Chicago Burbs, USA
 
The reason I posted this to begin with is for folks it applies to understand themselves a bit better even.. Not knowing can make things hard.. When you can put yourself in a group of other often misunderstood people it makes it much easier to deal with... 20 years ago I suffered from severe panic/anxiety attacks. The first time I had one I ended up in the hospital.. I was told nothing was wrong with me..Really?.. I happened to be flipping through a magazine my Wife had and there was an article on panic attacks.. That was the first time I was able to relate what I was feeling or going through to anybody..It was such a relief knowing I was not alone with this and knowing what it was... I overcame the attacks without medication since then and have helped others through it.. Letting them know that you have felt what they have makes it that much easier...

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Aug 11, 2013 12:52:16   #
heyrob Loc: Western Washington
 
ottopj wrote:
Everything Travesty said is true. It comes from the Theory of Carl Jung, Swiss Psychiatrist/Psychotherapist, put into practice by Isabel Briggs Myers, an American author and co-creator of a personality inventory known as the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator. Briggs Myers created the MBTI with her mother, Katharine Cook Briggs.

It is a fascinating instrument. Many business/colleges/organizations use it to help people understand others and themselves.

For a short blurb on it, go to: http://www.myersbriggs.org/my-mbti-personality-type/mbti-basics/

To go more indepth and take the inventory on line,go to: http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/jungtype.htm

Once you understand your type an dothers it makes life and relationships quite a bit easier and more productive.

Enjoy, it's a lot of fun.

PS: ignore the detractors. This inventory is helpful.
Everything Travesty said is true. It comes from t... (show quote)


I am a scientist/engineer and work in a small group of others of the same background. The company did a series of team building exercises across the enterprise over a period of a year or so, a couple years back. In one of those we all took the MBTI test before the exercise. In my particular group of 13 scientists and/or engineers, all but one was an I type, and I happened to be in the largest group of the same personality types (ISTJ) with 4 of us with that type. There were a number of pairs and couple singles, but we were all surprised by the fact that we were almost all introverted personalities.

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Aug 11, 2013 13:39:25   #
Sac-Jack Loc: Sacramento, Ca
 
You are so dead on and like you I know a few introverts as well. You really laid this out well. Thank You

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Aug 11, 2013 13:52:10   #
oldmalky Loc: West Midlands,England.
 
handgunner wrote:
Alas... Someone has finally figured out my personality and put a name to it. I wasn't always this way but by getting older I came to the realization that I did not want to be surrounded by things that annoy me. I find I do my best work if I can be by myself and not get distracted. Small children are my greatest distraaction and make me counterproductive in any task at hand. Patience is not one of my virtues.
It's kind of ironic... When I was much younger I couldn't wait to go out after work, now I can't wait to go home. Make sense? Probably not...anyway, that's my 2 cents.
Alas... Someone has finally figured out my persona... (show quote)


Im with you there handgunner to a T and i need to ask, your avatar, what kind of guinea pig.

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