Architect1776 wrote:
If you notice ADHD has virtually disappeared and been replaced by autism. I see claims that 1 in 54 have autism. Growing up in a period of 30 youthful years I NEVER saw an autistic person and I met hundreds of families in that time. Not a single autistic person in those thousands.
I repeat autism as a diagnosis is purely to get welfare because ADHD did not qualify. NO way 1 in 54 have it.
I can speak to autism, because my 48 year old son has it. It's indeed a "spectrum disorder", and there are identifiable traits, from those which resemble ADD and ADHD, to non-communicative. It takes a skilled psychologist to diagnose the level at which an autistic exists.
He was born in 1972, and displayed fear of change as early as 9 months old, when we moved from an apartment to our first home. He had slept soundly all night when he was born; never woke up for a bottle. However, when we moved, it took him almost another 9 months to settle in to our new home.
He did show some amazing learning. At age 2.5, he could read, write, and do comparative math problems (2+2= 2+1+1). He had an amazing vocabulary. That was the good part. We thought we had a Mensa candidate. Then, however, the traits of autism began to show. He didn't play well with others, but not in a mean way; he just didn't make the social connections. He was petrified of noises. We left 4th of July fireworks because he panicked so badly. The noise of the circus frightened him. However, he was a sponge when it came to remembering things.
We took him to three different psychologists who all stated separately, that our son had an "unknown psychological problem" (their words). How's that for clarity? The closest anyone came to finding a diagnosis was the school system psychologist who suspected something related to his learning environment.
We moved to Michigan in 1982, and he resided in special education programs with all the appropriate paperwork which meant little to us. Finally, in 1989 he had an outburst in high school, and we took him to a psychiatrist who nailed the diagnosis. He was autistic, not severe, but on the spectrum at the mild end. When the word autism was used, we at first thought of "Rain Man" autism.
We started him with a psychologist in the same practice, and we immediately noticed improvements. However, he still showed fear of what we would consider normal risk/reward. He didn't learn to drive until he was 20, because he was afraid he would kill someone. He finally overcame a lot of the fears of new things, graduated from community college and started working.
In 2007, however, the ground gave way; a relapse. He tried to harm himself, lost his job, and had to move in with us, two weeks before my retirement. A trip back to his psychologist confirmed my own research. There was a questionnaire on an Australian web site containing 25 questions. I answered honestly, and he hit on all 25. He had severe Asperger's Syndrome, within the mild end of autism. What a complication!
Today, he's gotten what seems to be a dream job. He's a customer service rep handling problems for car dealers. Here's where he shines. He spends most of the day on the phone solving problems; with the advantage of not having to literally face off with customers. Right now, he's working from home, and I can hear his conversations occasionally with dealers, manufacturers, jobbers, etc. He is so at ease, and so knowledgeable, that it almost makes me forget that he's autistic.
Sorry for the lengthy post, but autism, ADHD, and ADD (I'm ADD), have a long way to go to be understood.