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Feb 1, 2020 20:17:02   #
jim quist Loc: Missouri
 
Give her a link to your website or facebook where you will be posting them

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Feb 1, 2020 21:05:20   #
rehess Loc: South Bend, Indiana, USA
 
I’ve decided I should give a more complete answer. In recent years, we have gone to the Madrigal Dinner thrown by a local college at the beginning of Advent.
https://www.uglyhedgehog.com/t-427395-1.html

Although I take only a camera with a small sensor, I get a few reasonably good photos every year. One year a woman in the front row I was shooting around was using flash even though she had a Nikon DSLR camera; on the way out, I mentioned that flash would ‘wash out’ the candlelight coloring provided by the organizers. She told me that her first few were taken without flash, but noise was very evident, so she had switched to flash before her daughter’s solo. I quickly went through my photos {I have always been a low volume shooter}, and it turns out that I had taken two photos her daughter showed up in, and she did like my {second row} photos better than her own {first row} attempts, so she wrote down her email address, and I sent those two photos later that evening.

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Feb 2, 2020 05:28:29   #
Don, the 2nd son Loc: Crowded Florida
 
CHG_CANON wrote:
When I had my images culled, fully edited, resized for online sharing, watermarked, and posted to a read-only site, only then would I send her a link to that site. If I liked her as a friend from just a random meeting, I'd include an offer along with the site link to forward any images of interest to her, putting the burden back on her to pursue the idea of actual image files. I'd share only resized 2048px images to any subsequent request.



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Feb 2, 2020 05:41:15   #
CO
 
It was a few days later that the woman asked you if she could make copies of your photos. Was the group taking photos together for those days? If so, why didn't she ask for help on day one if her camera was acting up? It sounds suspicious to me. I think that probably her photos were lousy and she thought, that you, with a much better camera and lens, had the better photos.

I would have probed a little and asked her some specifics about what the problem is with her camera.

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Feb 2, 2020 05:47:55   #
VTMatwood Loc: Displaced Vermonta in Central New Hampsha
 
I was on a trip where a similar thing happened... a very nice woman who saw me shooting with a DSLR came up and explained that her camera battery had died and asked me to share my pictures with her. I grabbed her email and sent her a few of the best ones in JPG.

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Feb 2, 2020 06:14:17   #
BruceS
 
I would give her my business card and tell her that my photos would be visible there soon. Further, I might watermark a few favorites and send them directly to her. I would never give her (or you)my memory card.

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Feb 2, 2020 06:32:20   #
SteveG Loc: Norh Carolina
 
CaptainBlighNY wrote:
Recently, while on a cruise, I did a shore excursion to visit a penguin colony on the Falkland Islands. We were a van of 4 people. Three people were taking photographs. One person was using a cellphone camera. One women had a point-and-shoot camera. I was using my Nikon D500 with a 300mm zoom lens with a monopod.

At the top of the hill was the penguin breeding area where the newly hatched chicks were waiting for their parents to return with food. The colony consisted of Gentoo, Magellan and King ePenguins. The parents had to walk (waddle) about 1/2 mile from the water to the nesting area to give their chicks food.

That day I took over 1000 exposures of the chicks, their parents making the 1/2 mile trek from the ocean and the parents feeding them.

A few days later the women with the point and shoot camera tells me there was a problem with her camera and would I give her my photos. She asked me to give her my memory cards so she can copy them.

What would you do?
1) First question - Would you share your photos?
2) Do you tell her you do not share your photos.
3) Do you give her your memory card. [probably/definitely not]
4) Do you ask her for a memory card and you copy your photos for her [assuming you have a computer.]
5) Do you tell her they are RAW files and there is nothing she can do with them.
6) Do you tell her my memory cards are XQD which need a special card reader.
7) Tell her next time to buy a better camera.
8) Check your setting before staring out on an important photo assignment.
9) Take a couple of test shots and analyze them before staring out on an important photo assignment.

But the real first question is “Would you share your photos?”
Recently, while on a cruise, I did a shore excursi... (show quote)


I'd tell her that you shoot professionally and that your shots are for another client and that they cannot be shared since they really are not your property. Who knows what she wants to do with them?

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Feb 2, 2020 06:50:12   #
Flickwet Loc: NEOhio
 
Email the poor woman some pictures, even if her motivation is suspect, it’s not gonna take any money out of your hands, such arrogance to not do so, hell I would have let her download the card

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Feb 2, 2020 06:56:47   #
traderjohn Loc: New York City
 
CaptainBlighNY wrote:
Recently, while on a cruise, I did a shore excursion to visit a penguin colony on the Falkland Islands. We were a van of 4 people. Three people were taking photographs. One person was using a cellphone camera. One women had a point-and-shoot camera. I was using my Nikon D500 with a 300mm zoom lens with a monopod.

At the top of the hill was the penguin breeding area where the newly hatched chicks were waiting for their parents to return with food. The colony consisted of Gentoo, Magellan and King ePenguins. The parents had to walk (waddle) about 1/2 mile from the water to the nesting area to give their chicks food.

That day I took over 1000 exposures of the chicks, their parents making the 1/2 mile trek from the ocean and the parents feeding them.

A few days later the women with the point and shoot camera tells me there was a problem with her camera and would I give her my photos. She asked me to give her my memory cards so she can copy them.

What would you do?
1) First question - Would you share your photos?
2) Do you tell her you do not share your photos.
3) Do you give her your memory card. [probably/definitely not]
4) Do you ask her for a memory card and you copy your photos for her [assuming you have a computer.]
5) Do you tell her they are RAW files and there is nothing she can do with them.
6) Do you tell her my memory cards are XQD which need a special card reader.
7) Tell her next time to buy a better camera.
8) Check your setting before staring out on an important photo assignment.
9) Take a couple of test shots and analyze them before staring out on an important photo assignment.

But the real first question is “Would you share your photos?”
Recently, while on a cruise, I did a shore excursi... (show quote)


Why not???!!. Be generous think....be a human being, be compassionate and understanding. Sum it up... be a nice person. At this point, as it is in the past you are now just a face in the crowd.

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Feb 2, 2020 07:07:22   #
Jimmy T Loc: Virginia
 
CHG_CANON wrote:
When I had my images culled, fully edited, resized for online sharing, watermarked, and posted to a read-only site, only then would I send her a link to that site. If I liked her as a friend from just a random meeting, I'd include an offer along with the site link to forward any images of interest to her, putting the burden back on her to pursue the idea of actual image files. I'd share only resized 2048px images to any subsequent request.


I think that Paul has the best answer so far.
I NEVER let people see, much less share my photos with anyone before I have culled, edited, resized, etc my pics.
A huge percentage of my photos are culled out as unacceptable, period.
While I would have sympathy for the lady with the malfunctioning camera.
In my life I have found that there are those that refuse to prepare, or even plan ahead, and expect (sometimes publically demand) that others "share" with them.
Actually these folks do very well in life without exerting much effort of financial outlay.
In most other things I am most charitable.
Smile,
JimmyT Sends


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Feb 2, 2020 07:39:42   #
BebuLamar
 
CO wrote:
It was a few days later that the woman asked you if she could make copies of your photos. Was the group taking photos together for those days? If so, why didn't she ask for help on day one if her camera was acting up? It sounds suspicious to me. I think that probably her photos were lousy and she thought, that you, with a much better camera and lens, had the better photos.

I would have probed a little and asked her some specifics about what the problem is with her camera.


I think that is the case but if I were the OP I wouldn't investigate. Just say no if I don't feel like sharing. Even in the case her camera broke that day it's no reason to share the pictures.

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Feb 2, 2020 07:42:34   #
SteveG Loc: Norh Carolina
 
traderjohn wrote:
Why not???!!. Be generous think....be a human being, be compassionate and understanding. Sum it up... be a nice person. At this point, as it is in the past you are now just a face in the crowd.


Why not? What if they end up as a spread somewhere else with their name taking the credit. Whole thing sounds fishy to me. I wouldn't be so quick to assume that she has no ulterior motives.

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Feb 2, 2020 07:43:10   #
TonyF Loc: Bradenton, FL
 
bleirer wrote:
I would get her email and send her a few of the memorable ones after you've selected them.



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Feb 2, 2020 07:58:16   #
traderjohn Loc: New York City
 
SteveG wrote:
I'd tell her that you shoot professionally and that your shots are for another client and that they cannot be shared since they really are not your property. Who knows what she wants to do with them?

"Who knows what she wants to do with them?"
Yeah.... my God, she might want to show her family and friends where she went on vacation. Terrible terrible.
Aren't they the worst people??

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Feb 2, 2020 08:01:40   #
traderjohn Loc: New York City
 
SteveG wrote:
Why not? What if they end up as a spread somewhere else with their name taking the credit. Whole thing sounds fishy to me. I wouldn't be so quick to assume that she has no ulterior motives.


Boy!!! It's a good thing you can find her out for what she really had on her mind. Kinda sad.

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