Wallen wrote:
Likewise, no guilt from me for things that I rightfully earned.
There is sadness, frustration and disappointment though.
To the system and to them that made a lot of wrong choices, especially when they blame others for their mistakes.
Comparison? Nah, there will always be those with more than I have, and also those with much less. Life is never fair. Comparisons for the sake of upping one over the someone less never will lead to a good outcome.
Trying not to take away from the OP, but yes. There is always that "if not for... this or that...go I" thought. There is always chance or luck, or fortune, whatever you want to call it. But with good physical and mental health, it's mostly up to the individual's actions and choices, IMHO.