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Apr 6, 2023 19:02:56   #
cruise4two
 
I hesitated to post this but hoping another UHH member can offer positive guidance.

Dilemma I have pertains to a UHH member who is a tremendous source for all things photographic.

Seem he has placed me on his "Ignore List" due to small misunderstanding between the two of us.

I have attempted to reach out to this individual a number of things via Private Messaging to apologize and attempt to smooth over any misunderstanding.

Dawned on me if I am on his Ignore List he will never see my PM's.

Any ideas how to re-establish open channel of communication ?

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Apr 6, 2023 19:04:48   #
Longshadow Loc: Audubon, PA, United States
 
If you reached out to him by the "olive branch" he will.
Plain messaging, maybe not.

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Apr 6, 2023 19:47:11   #
cruise4two
 
Longshadow wrote:
If you reached out to him by the "olive branch" he will.
Plain messaging, maybe not.


I've attempted to apologize a couple of times via Private Messaging bit of he has me on Ignore List it's probably not getting thru. To good a resource to lose.

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Apr 6, 2023 20:27:25   #
Longshadow Loc: Audubon, PA, United States
 
Go to his profile and look for "Extend an olive branch".

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Apr 6, 2023 20:37:39   #
cruise4two
 
Longshadow wrote:
Go to his profile and look for "Extend an olive branch".


I went to user's profile but don't see "Extend an olive branch" you refer to.

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Apr 6, 2023 20:46:27   #
Longshadow Loc: Audubon, PA, United States
 
cruise4two wrote:
I went to user's profile but don't see "Extend an olive branch" you refer to.

Here's a screen snippet:

If you don't see something like this, you are not on his ignore list:
If you don't see something like this, you are not ...
(Download)

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Apr 6, 2023 20:52:38   #
Longshadow Loc: Audubon, PA, United States
 
In your "SENT"message, does it say that the message is unread?

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Apr 6, 2023 21:00:18   #
luvmypets Loc: Born & raised Texan living in Fayetteville NC
 
If the "Olive Branch" option is not available could you ask one of your friends here on UHH to reach out to that person in a private message for you so that you know the message has gone through? This person would not to be a mediator but simply a message carrier.

It is possible that this person may not be willing to take you off his ignore list and resume communication; you may have to accept that this resource is lost and that you will have to find another.

I sincerely hope you are able to mend the relationship. Best wishes for success!!

Dodie

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Apr 6, 2023 21:05:03   #
cruise4two
 
Longshadow wrote:
Here's a screen snippet:


I don't see "Extend Olive Branch..." as shown in screen snippet. However, I do see my last two PM's to user went unanswered.

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Apr 6, 2023 21:09:33   #
Longshadow Loc: Audubon, PA, United States
 
cruise4two wrote:
I don't see "Extend Olive Branch..." as shown in screen snippet. However, I do see my last two PM's to user went unanswered.

There's your answer.
He just did not read your messages.
You are not on his block list.

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Apr 6, 2023 22:33:08   #
cruise4two
 
Longshadow wrote:
There's your answer.
He just did not read your messages.
You are not on his block list.


Thanks for helping to put my mind at ease.

Best regards, Bill

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Apr 7, 2023 21:37:45   #
Lucasdv123
 
On this forum people like you or they don't. I am like Will Rogers who used to say he had never met a man he didn't like.i have met lots of men I didn't like but it's ok.on the same token I'm pretty sure there are people out there that don't like me and I am ok with that.sex, religion,political,ethnicity,and even cause you are from a different state or like a different team is reason enough for someone not to like you.good luck.

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Apr 7, 2023 21:53:05   #
cruise4two
 
Lucasdv123 wrote:
On this forum people like you or they don't. I am like Will Rogers who used to say he had never met a man he didn't like.i have met lots of men I didn't like but it's ok.on the same token I'm pretty sure there are people out there that don't like me and I am ok with that.sex, religion,political,ethnicity,and even cause you are from a different state or like a different team is reason enough for someone not to like you.good luck.


I hear you ! I too am like Will Rogers.

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Apr 8, 2023 18:29:38   #
Stephan G
 
cruise4two wrote:
I hear you ! I too am like Will Rogers.


I am not like Will Rogers. I still have a few more years to go before I am "like Will Rogers".

A brilliant mind that was lost too soon in his life.


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