Hi StanRP,,

It was a pleasant surprise to see your response here. It is 12:12 am, Thursday morning now. I checked my email real quick before going to bed and say your email. I to was shocked,and very disappointed when I read about no marriage in heaven. I still have my wedding ring on my finger from Carol, and a small (I love you ring) that I bought for her on a Valentines Day, before she was called home, on my little finger next to my ring. I have her Wedding rings put away. I've always wondered what she would think when she saw her ring still on my finger. I've kept those rings on even after reading about no marriage in heaven. I think what has kept me going was thinking about being with her again in heaven. After I figured out what I wanted on our headstone I had a bench put on the stone with the two of us sitting on the bench in front of a lake. When I am at the burial site I always tell her to save that spot for me next to her. Home is only about two miles from there. I will talk to you a little later, because I have to be at the hospital early for pulmonary rehab on the bicycle and treadmill. I would like to hear more about what you were telling me in your post. The things about marriage in heaven keep me thinking about it.