This is a simple answer Thom.
Christian is...
If you declare with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.
He who has the Son, has life.
Christians go to heaven. Non Christians go to hell.
Can Christians disqualify themselves from heaven?
"Therefore I do not run like someone running aimlessly; I do not fight like a boxer beating the air. No, I strike a blow to my body and make it my s***e so that after I have preached to others, that I myself will not be disqualified from the prize."
How do you disqualify yourself from heaven? Murder people.. Murder defenseless children. "Thou shall not murder".
Cause children to sin, "It would be better for them to be thrown into the sea with a millstone tied around their neck than to cause one of these little ones to stumble."
And while you may have been a murderer in the past and come to Christ for forgiveness, you cannot continue murdering, enabling or promoting murder, of adults.. especially children, or cause children to sin.
You are not a Christian if you do these things and you cannot enter heaven. You are disqualified. (And if anyone wants to argue that you can continue to murder or sin and don't think you will have a fiery expectation, go read the bible.)
So I am going to say, those southern baptist who promote murdering children are not Christians. Even the catholic church denied Pelosi communion with Christ because she is a murderer.
The Jehovah Witness and Mormans are not Christians, they preach a gospel other than the one Christ preached.
And just so you know, while no non Christians are going to heaven. Not many people who call themselves Christians are going to heaven either.