St.Mary's wrote:
Many years ago coming out of a movie theater with an older friend, I expressed some sympathy with the submarine crew portrayed in the movie we had just watched, "Das Boot." His reply was ( I paraphrase) "Oh, I was kind of hoping they would all get Deep-sixed." He had fought the Wehrmacht in the Hurtgen Forest in WWII. While it is sad all the crew went down on the "Kursk", they would have been more than willing to push the button on us.
My grandfather fought on the German side in WW1, and WW2, and won two Iron Crosses for bravery. He did not only fight in one battle, but in hundreds of them during nine years of combat. Whenever he talked about the enemy he would only say "they were only soldiers like the rest of us, fighting for what they believed." I found this mindset common among German WW2 veterans I have personally known and interviewed. The "let's kill them all and let God sort them out" mentality was not part of their sentiments. I'm speaking of real German Veterans, not the Hollywood kind. As to the crew of the Kursk being "willing to push the button on us," that argument could be made to dehumanize anyone in any military. By the way, I'm a US Marine Corps veteran.