richandtd wrote:
... D500 is faster, good build quality but is DX.... do I need the FPS of the D500?... expansion into bird photography... really love the quality of pictures from the D810...
First question... Do you actually NEED FX?
Yes, FX image quality can be great. HOWEVER, I wonder how many people actually need it. It's possible that you are the only person who ever sees all that image quality... when you are viewing your images at ridiculously magnified sizes on your computer monitor.
What do you DO with you images? Do you make really large prints? Say, bigger than 13x19? If you do make16x24s and larger, the FX camera might make sense. If the largest you ever print is smaller than that, so long as you don't do a lot of heavy cropping you wouldn't see very much difference from a recent DX model with 21MP or more resolution.
You mention birding and seem fixated on frame rate and build. As I understand it, the D810 and the D500 have the same 200,000 "click" durability rating and similar weather sealing. Yes, your D810's top continuous shooting rate is 5 frames per second and the D500 doubles that to 10 fps. But you may hate yourself if you do "too many" shots at the high frame rate (end up spending a lot more time sitting at a computer editing many more images). Short, fast bursts can be very useful at times, dut I'd argue that some other major differences between the camera are more important.
AUTO FOCUS
First, the D810 has a good, mid-grade AF system. But the D500 has a premium AF system. It has 153 AF points, versus 51 in the D810. Plus, 99 of the D500's AF points are the higher performance "cross" or "dual axis" type. The D810 only has 15 of those. In addition, the D500's AF system is rated to work down to -4EV, which is two stops lower light conditions than the D810's -2EV rating. Finally, although both have "f/8 capability", the D500 has more of those points, which is a feature that can be important if using teleconverters for additional "reach" and is a strong possibility when "birding". In fact, all these factors can be important for birders trying to capture images of small, distant, fast moving subjects in challenging lighting conditions.
TELEPHOTO ADVANTAGE
The D500's DX format is actually a big advantage when using telephotos, which you will undoubtedly do when birding. Say you are using a Nikkor 200-500mm (~$1400, 5 lb.) on the D500. To get the same "reach" with an FX D810 you will need a 300-750mm lens! No such zoom exists (at least not one that's worth consideration). So you'd have to buy prime lenses at a couple different focal lengths. And to keep those as light and manageable as possible, you might choose Nikon's relatively new "PF" lenses where you can, such as Nikkor 300mm f/4 PF (~$2000, 1.66 lb.) and Nikkor 500mm f/5.6 PF (~$3600, 3.2 lb.). You might use the latter with a 1.4X teleconverter to have a 700mm f/8 combo... If money is no object, an alternative is a Nikkor 800mm f/5.6 FL (~$16,300, 10 lb.)!
In other words, to have the same "reach" to photograph those small, shy subjects at a distance will be a lot more expensive and cumbersome with an FX camera, compared to what's possible with a DX.
So, how about just using the D810 in it's DX crop mode? Actually, instead I'd recommend cropping in post-processing... that can give the exact same results as the in-camera crop, but by doing it in post you have a lot more flexibility to vary the size and/or positioning of the crop.
However, cropping the 36MP FX camera to DX equivalent makes for 15MP images... significantly lower resolution than the D500's 21MP. Another thing often overlooked is that in DX mode the D810 delineates the image area that will be captured using a frame superimposed on the scene in the viewfinder. This can be easy to overlook, causing you to make mistakes framing your images. But, probably more importantly, the visual "crop" of the FX camera's viewfinder ends up being considerably smaller than the direct view in the D500. Instead of the 100%, 1.0X magnification of the D500, you'll be cropping a 100%, 0.7X viewfinder down to about 0.5X. In other words, the DX image area of the D810 will be much smaller and more difficult to work with than the considerably bigger DX view provided by the D500.
ALTERNATIVES
You only mention bird photography as an interest. You don't say what other things you shoot. For some purposes, the FX camera might be more ideal. They excel with wide angle lenses and depth of field effects such as portraiture (large aperture), or macro (small aperture). FX is often preferred for landscape and architectural photography. You also don't mention what lenses you have, which may be an important consideration.
If you do a wide variety of types of photography, ideal might be to have both formats in your kit, available for different purposes. If that's the case with you, maybe you should consider other options, besides the $1500 D500. For a lot less money the DX format D7500 ($900 new, $600 refurbished) gives you the same resolution as the D500, reasonably fast frame rates and a familiar 51-point AF system that's been tweaked a bit for action shooting. You also might be able to find a deal used/refurb D7200, which has slower 6 fps and similar AF, but higher 24MP resolution than D500, D7500 or, when it's in DX mode, D810. In fact, the D7200's has the best color depth and dynamic range of any Nikon DX sensor. I think the D7200 and D7500 51-point AF systems are rated to -3 EV... a stop better than your D810, although not quite as good as the D500's -4EV. The viewfinders of D7200 and D7500 are also nearly equal to the D500's... 100% and 0.94X magnification (both giving larger view than the DX crop area in D810).
The upshot of this is that a less expensive model such as a D7200 or D7500 allows you to keep your D810 to use alongside it, that might be a better solution than replacing the D810 with a D500. D500, D7500 or D7200 all would be solid upgrades from the older D300s you mentioned.
Food for thought... Have fun shopping!