SRTfirst wrote:
40-45 years ago, I loved 35mm SLRs. Last year I decided to get back into photography with a digital mirrorless. After more than a year of countless times through the manual, You Tube tutorials, and a friend suggesting settings, I still feel incompetent. And it’s not fun! I’m not (quite) ready to resort to a point and shoot, but if you have any suggestions of which cameras offer the most intuitive menus, I’d be very appreciative.
Take a step back and relax. All digital cameras have a zillion bells and whistles. That doesn't mean we need to blow and ring them (or even understand all of them).
You already probably know how to get good photos if you were using an SLR 40 years ago - they didn't do much automatically back then (and only if you went for the more advanced models).
Shutter speed, aperture, and ISO are the basics, as they were in the film days.
In the menus (or more likely a button) you will need to understand auto focus, so concentrate on that before worrying about "focus stacking", "live composite", "art filters", or any other "nice to have, but not actually required" feature. Don't worry that you paid for these features and you wasted money if you don't use them!
Once you have gotten comfortable with the camera and start getting consistently good photos, you can start wondering how you might do more. The problem with menus (or Help on a computer) is that you have to know what question to ask before you can search for the answer. The technology has come a long way in the last 20 years. There are features that could not have existed in the film world, and did not exist in the digital world until recently. For example, how do you find out how to use "Focus Stacking" in a camera if you don't even know it is called that?
Go slow. When you hear about a feature, and it makes sense to you and you think it would be useful (not all of them are for everyone), concentrate on that feature and learn it.
I had my first digital camera for over a year (an all in one) before I realized it worked exactly like my old Canon AT-1 film camera. Low and behold, I started getting better shots because I didn't just let the camera decide all the settings. I still don't spend very much time in the menus, and over time I have picked up enough that the menus do become more intuitive (because my knowledge of digital has expanded).
If you need a starting point to learn in the menus, learn about the AF settings, set up "Focus Peaking" (a great help in manual focusing), and become familiar with metering modes (probably a 5 to 10 minute thing - not rocket science). Then shoot and play. I have not tried most of the features my camera has, nor spent more than 2 hours altogether over the last 5 years in my menus. Olympus OMD-M1 and M1 II, to give you an idea of what menus I am talking about. You can get great photos and not strain your brain over things that will "not be on the exam". Oh! There is no exam! Have fun!