Lens fine tuning is most important with larger aperture and long telephoto lenses. It's a great feature to have, if you shoot with those lenses at or near wide open a lot, where depth of field is shallow and any focus error can be more critical. But, otherwise, for most folks it's probably a lot less necessary.
Haydon wrote:
...I have a friend that just submitted their 100 2.8L macro lens back to Canon for front focusing issues and they want $205.00 for the calibration....
That sounds like a lot more than the usual calibration... probably not something that could be resolved with MFA and FoCal, anyway.
Personally I do use a lot of big telephotos and consider MFA a "must-have", helpful feature.
As to remotes, I shoot Canon and can't comment specifically about Nikon's....
But, I bought one of Canon's inexpensive wireless (IR) remotes used, off eBay, for about $10 shipped. A lot cheaper than the price for a new one, fairly comparable with the cheaper third party.
I also use a couple of the wired releases and one of the more sophisticated wired intervalometers (which can be programmed to do time lapse and other things). These are all OEM (there are cheaper third party) and are more useful than the cheap, wireless unit for a lot of purposes.
I don't know if Nikon's are the same, but the purpose of the inexpensive wireless is basically self-portraits. It only works from in front of the camera (the camera's sensor is on the finger grip, normally would be covered by your fingers while holding the camera), there is no extra long (more than 30 seconds) "bulb" exposure possible with it, nor does it give mirror lock-up, plus any time lapse series made with it would need to be done manually tripping each exposure. The more expensive, wired releases can do all these things reliably and from anywhere around and behind the camera. The wired releases are not usable with all camera models, only the more advanced ones.
Note: some of the more recent Canon have built-in intervalometer, possibly making my more expensive wired remote less necessary. Also, Live View shooting accomplishes much the same thing as mirror lockup. I don't know about Nikon, but the last couple generations of Canon DSLRs have a vastly improved autofocus in Live View.... it's much faster and more useful now.