For indoor shooting, often f3.5 or even f2.8 isn't "fast" enough. f2.8 is only 2/3 stop faster than f3.5 anyway. And, it appears from your signature that you have a 60/2.8 macro, which would be just as low light capable as any f2.8 lens.
You might want to look at prime lenses instead of zooms. For example, 85/2, 85/1.8, 85/1.4, 50/1.8, 50/1.4, 50/1.2 are all one, two or even up to 2 and 2/3 stops faster than f2.8. Primes are often smaller and can be less expensive than fast zooms, too (though not $75 and, admittedly, f1.2 lenses usually are pretty pricey).
For example, this was shot with an 85/1.8 lens wide open at f1.8, and with ISO 1600 and 1/80 shutter speed...
The only light source for the above was what was being reflected from the projection screen.
The thing is, in addition to their light gathering abilities, "fast" lenses with large apertures also render shallower depth of field, which may or may not work for what you are trying to shoot. This is more pronounced in longer focal lengths.
Here is another shot from the same shoot, this time with more illumination from the modeling lamp of a large studio strobe (about 250 watts). Same lens at f2, ISO 1600 and 1/400...
It may be a little hard to see above, in small size and internet resolution, but notice the subject's hand and the wine bottle are slightly out of focus due to the shallow depth of field that's naturally rendered by the telephoto lens at a large aperture.
The good news is that theatrically stage lighting is often a lot brighter than you might think... it's just often concentrated on one area within a larger area of darkness. That can allow for faster shutter speeds, lower ISO and smaller apertures than you might think. It just typically varies a lot depending upon the production and in the course of the event, so you may need to time your shots for particular moments.
When I shoot a theatrical production I will try to attend one of the rehearsals in advance to do some test shots and learn more about what lighting is being used. If possible, I'll get on stage to meter the light as accurately as possible with a handheld incident meter, because the reflective meter built into a camera is often fooled by the extreme range of the lighting. But if that's not possible, some sort of spot or partial metering with your camera might be helpful.
Incidentally, the old Vivitar Series 1 manual focus lenses were among the best and most innovative in their day. Vivitar never made any lenses themselves. They outsourced to many different manufacturers who built the lenses to their specifications. At the time when many of their top-of-the-line Series 1 were made, Vivitar used a serial number system that identifies the actual manufacturer. The first two digits of the number indicates who actually built the lens. Some notables included #22xxxxxxxx which is "Kino Precision", who also made their own "Kiron" lenses, many of which have "cult status" today. Kino was started by several ex-Nikkor engineers. The company president once stated that "Kiron is Nikon, spelled sideways." A couple more manufacturers known for their high quality products, #37xxxxxx indicates a Tokina manufactured lens, and lenses made by Perkin-Elmer have a #44xxxxxx serial number. A more complete list of their manufacturer codes can be found at
http://camera-wiki.org/wiki/Vivitar_serial_numbers.
Even if that 70-210/3.5 Series 1 lens doesn't work out for the theatrical purposes, you might want to hang onto it for other things. If it's in reasonably good shape, $75 is a very good price for it. They often sell for a lot more, particularly when found with a bayonet mount that's still in wide use today and compatible with modern DSLRs (such as Nikon F, Pentax K/A, Olympus OM).