suntouched wrote:
I have listed several items for sale. i have had several inquiries that indicated that the person was more than a little interested. After politely answering all inquires, some via public and some vis private messaging (all positive replies) then NOTHING. I don't get it. When someone says " I want to buy your item" and then not even a courtesy "I changed my mind" message it leaves me perplexed and a bit irritated.If you don't want to follow through, then that's fine, but at least have the courtesy to say that. I won't hold it against you. I change my mind too. And then the ones that say " Oh I could get it cheaper as a refurbished or used or from China or whatever- fine get it that way then but don't sabotage my sale. Maybe my product is better in the long run. I have never run into this before and have had good results from Ebay. For those of you that say "then sell it on Ebay" - I will. Just saying....
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It's relatively common on classifieds on any forum site. UHH represents the lowest common denominator in this area, as near as I can tell, but not much worse than forum classifieds in general.
That's why I avoid forum classifieds and absolutely avoid craigslist for the reasons you mentioned and to avoid getting mugged or killed on Craigslist.
Ebay started online auctions in 1996 and has a mature and secure system, presuming you take normal cautions, use the feedback system, and other observant behavior. Have not had any particularly bad experience there in twenty years of buying and selling. In fact I teach it at the local community college.
Absent are the communications like the one's frustrating you, primarily because more effort is involved in the transactions and it is more formal, throughout the transaction.
Trying to sell on supposedly market interest classifieds is a mental trap. Marketing is marketing no matter where you do it. The exposure is SO LIMITED for what you are selling on this forum, regardless of the supposed interest in camera gear.
eBay is a mass market, where if you are fair on price, you are competing on a much larger scale, and it does have it's categorical venues.
Selling one item of a particular nature, on a classified that has at most 300-400 people watching at any given time will always prove to be frustrating.
Regardless of the supposed 35,000 hedgehog followers inhabiting this site, I have never seen more than 500 people on site AT ANY TIME! I wonder where all these hoggers went. Does the 35,000 mean everyone who has ever looked and registered on the site and left.
So, summing this up, you may want to try to sell your stuff where it will sell, based on the huge numbers of views you get.
I've had about 1,000 buys and sales on eBay over the years. I rarely use anything other than eBay to sell. Dedicated sites are just not as fruitful as one might think.
Good luck on future sales, somewhere with more interest and a less casual group of people. People who are looking to buy, not just being friendly and think showing some interest will boost your spirits.