The misconception continues
Gottalaugh or I'm gonn cry!
Let's say for argument sake that the BRIDE is the star of the show. Well- all the marketing in the wedding industry is directed at the bride- ever see a Modern Groom Magazine" or a Groomal fair? they only have Bridal fairs! The groom is important as well and although parts and elders are not as involved in wedding planning as they used to be, they are all potential clients to satisfy and stimulate sales.
Regardless of that, most brides and grooms are not interested in the technicalities of photograhy, unless that is if they are enthusiasts or professional photographers themselves. They couldn't usually care less about flas usage, how bokeh is formed, or what make and type of equipment you use. If you rrepreset yourself as a professional, most folks will assume you have and use the right gear and you know how to use it. Folk respond to the way they appear in the images and the emotional content of those pictures.
I love available and existing light when it is available and when it exists. Otherwise, it's FLASH to the rescue. I lean to use multiple flashes at the wedding as a teenager- that was my first job as an assistant- manning the off-camera flash at the end of a monopod and I had to learn exactly where to place it while working on the fly. My mobile light could be the main light, a kicker, a light to extend the range of the on-camera flash to defeat the inverse square law. I was taught all the classic lighting forms at the studio- butterfly, loop, Rembrandt. split. kicker, background and hair lighting and learned to replicate all of these quickly by watching the photographer's movements, anticipating his actions and estimating the distance and placement in seconds- and all that with no modelling lights!. That how I learned how to shoot!
In a dark church or reception venue, I can't shoot everything at wide-open apertures and have little or no depth of field or run up the ISO to extremely nosy levels so I employ flash and these flash shots are no flat washed-out images with overexposed foregrounds and black-hole backgrounds. Some exposures are entirely flash dependent and others are blended perfectly with natural light and none of them have the telltale earmarks of poorly applied flash photography. If false is prohibited during the ceremony, I make do with available light and fine that a bit of "grain" or noise has an ethereal effect. At least, I can usually use my flash for the procession and the recessional!
Common sense check: If, If, may the Universe forbid, if you have to do a wedding re-shoot, you can just redo the formal portraits if the original set was unsatisfactory.
Quickie weddings? Jack be nimble, Jack be quick, Jack jump over the candlestick! Sorry about that but you know what just burns my backside? A 3-foot candle AND hastily planned weddings. Those can be a nightmare and a minefield to cover. If you only have a very short window of opportunity to shoot, you better be nimble and quick and have all your ducks in line. Even if the entire ceremony and reception take only one hour, why not tell the folks to spend another hour with you so, at least they will have a lifelong remembrance of the day regardless of the brevity of the event.
Peace to all. Stay safe, mask up, wash your hands, avoid riots and come out at the other end of Covid in good health and ready to resume life!
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