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Dec 24, 2017 17:11:44   #
Peterff Loc: O'er The Hills and Far Away, in Themyscira.
 
gessman wrote:
I was a very early member of uhh and what happened in the beginning was that there were a few snarky people and the others were constantly complaining about photography related threads were being hijacked by people tossing in political and religious comments so the "Chit Chat" section was started so those who wanted to discuss issues other than photography. That didn't stop the problem but Admin made a few threats and actually kicked a few people out of uhh, some of whom returned under another name, but a little later when "Chit Chat" got to be too nasty for the mildly people with nasty attitudes "The Attic" was opened so those who really want to be nasty would have a place to do their thing. In the meantime, those who regularly post images in the Photo Gallery were able to appeal to Admin to outlaw any kind of criticism or negative comments about the photos there unless the person who posted them specifically asked for criticism. Further complaints led to the opening of the specialty sections we now have like "Macro," "Photo Analysis," "For Your Consideration," and all the other sections that relate to photography and all of that was an attempt to push out those people who cannot keep a civil tongue in their mouth. It hasn't worked but it may be better than it might have been.

The man who started the forum admitted that he had only just bought a camera within a year prior to deciding to open uhh and was therefore not really in a position to moderate the subject of photography but rather was a marketing specialist and that the forum was definitely set up as a for-profit venture. Of course, as it is with many other attempts at marketing, the fees charged advertisers are based upon how many people will see an advertisement so the larger the number of members, the higher the income from advertisers which is why you haven't seen an opportunity to "quit" uhh. It's kinda like being a lifer and admin has every reason to not intervene in argumentative stuff and in fact, does almost nothing to encourage civility and in fact, may very well profit more when there is a good deal of upheaval and conflict among the members - as in, "a little controversy never hurt anyone but it attracts a lot of attention" and it may even be good for business because it attracts even those who only want to be nasty. Others take it upon themselves to make sure everyone knows how smart and informed they are and hence go around correcting everyone in what they think and say.
I was a very early member of uhh and what happened... (show quote)


Well said, again, Sir.

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Dec 24, 2017 17:15:02   #
Quantus5
 
Peterff wrote:
Well said, again, Sir.


Yes -- well said. It was interesting to read the history of UHH.

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Dec 24, 2017 17:16:29   #
Rongnongno Loc: FL
 
ronichas wrote:
I was trying to justify to myself about the mean comments.
If you read my note, it said "I tend to picture an old man, in his underwear, alone, lonely and posting negative comments.

I didn't mean to offend, it wasn't a blanket statement, I wasn't being mean to anyone.

And you learn that you can offend w/o even trying.

Now what?

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Dec 24, 2017 17:18:22   #
Quantus5
 
ronichas wrote:
I was trying to justify to myself about the mean comments.
If you read my note, it said "I tend to picture an old man, in his underwear, alone, lonely and posting negative comments.

I didn't mean to offend, it wasn't a blanket statement, I wasn't being mean to anyone.


I'm not an old man, but I can see where this comment can come off as offensive to some old men. I know you didn't mean to offend -- but that comment could have been left out of your post, especially when the post was about being nice.

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Dec 24, 2017 17:21:51   #
Peterff Loc: O'er The Hills and Far Away, in Themyscira.
 
al13 wrote:
“...You are one of the idiots that the majority on this site made reference to. Hide behind your keyboard juvenile.


I guess you also just self identified as one of the problem members yourself. Have you tried adding yourself to your own ignore list?

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Dec 24, 2017 17:25:50   #
billnikon Loc: Pennsylvania/Ohio/Florida/Maui/Oregon/Vermont
 
Only here can you have a plea for piece and tranquility and not to be nasty in an original post only to have that post turn into exactly what it was set against. Congratulations everyone, you never fail to disappoint. Love you all.

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Dec 24, 2017 17:29:30   #
Peterff Loc: O'er The Hills and Far Away, in Themyscira.
 
tdekany wrote:
Just because I call out on your mean personality, doesn’t make me insane.

Stop being pathetic at least on Xmas day, but it looks like you can’t do it. However, if it prevents your family from having to deal with you, by all means, spend as much time here as possible.


So this is Christmas! Perhaps we could return to the topic of a little peace, kindness, and civility.

I may consider Ron to be a 'crusty old bugger', and I am most definitely on his ignore list, but I strongly believe that he adds a lot of value to the forum, even if his style irritates some people. I can't recall him being really mean to people as some others are. Abrupt? Certainly, but downright insulting I do not recall.

So I wish Season's Greetings to Ron, and a Happy and Prosperous New Year!

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Dec 24, 2017 17:34:00   #
grandkids6
 
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Dec 24, 2017 17:35:13   #
Wmetcalf Loc: Rogersville, Mo
 
ronichas wrote:
I am a long time photographer. I was the organizer for the Long Island Photography meetup for 10 years with over 250 members.
I am not new to photography. The one thing that often surprises me, is how rude, nasty and mean some of the people...mostly men...are on this site. I tend to picture an old man, in his underwear, alone, lonely and posting negative comments.

Some people feel they have to criticize, insult, make rude remarks, make fun of, etc, when people post something. They do this even if they aren't even interested in the topic.

This is not always a friendly site. There are people that are very helpful, but the rude ones take away from that.

"Whatever you do, don't look in your manual or visit the Nikon site."
"I've always wondered how the human can be so naïve, such that their brain thinks $174.99 is far less expensive than $175. "
"I think too many sellers on UHH have an inflated opinion of what their old, unwanted equipment is worth."

I would like to request in 2018, that those people hold back on their negative comments.
If you don't have something nice to say, don't post anything.

There are newbies here, to both photography and to the use of the computer. Yes, it is easy to say, *just google it* but there is a way to say it without being mean about it. That might not be the first thing someone thinks about when they are trying to get some information.

We all share a love of photography, lets be kind to one another, be helpful, or don't help at all.

Wishing all a Healthy & Happy Holiday.
I am a long time photographer. I was the organizer... (show quote)


👍👍👍👍👍

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Dec 24, 2017 17:39:07   #
srt101fan
 
gessman wrote:
I am not making an attempt to be the thought or grammar police here with what I'm about to say but I'd like to address the importance of good, clear communication with correctly spelled words. There are a ton of total newbies come on here trying to learn and if they are hit with a bunch of regular English terms that have already been hijacked for photography use it's often already confusing enough and if we then misspell those terms to the point that they cannot even be looked up the way we offer them, it only creates mass confusion in the mind of a person who does not know what someone is trying to say. It is not only confusing but it can be so discouraging as to leave a total beginner with the idea that they'll never understand this whole thing and cause them to want to give up. Often, while it would be nice and beneficial for everyone, many folks who are just beginning have no idea where to start when it comes to reading the multitude of books out there on the subjects of photography and cameras and even though they may not be inclined toward self-directed study, it's about as confusing as any subject I can think of and there really isn't any way to know what's the best starting place when you know nothing. Many turn to places like this to try to get a feel for where their interests lie so brief, terse, unclear, unexplanatory comments that are full of misspelled words can do a lot of harm and the thing is that you have to know what those words mean in order for what a person says to make sense. It's little different from anything else and is why we were hammered in school to get it right - so we could be understood and not do more harm and cause more confusion than we fix. We need to take our time and write in complete and clear sentences with the words spelled correctly in order to effectively communicate. Otherwise, the world would often be better off if we just remained quiet.
I am not making an attempt to be the thought or gr... (show quote)



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Dec 24, 2017 17:42:25   #
tdekany Loc: Oregon
 
Peterff wrote:
So this is Christmas! Perhaps we could return to the topic of little peace, kindness, and civility.

I may consider Ron to be a 'crusty old bugger', and I am most definitely on his ignore list, but I strongly believe that he adds a lot of value to the forum, even if his style irritates some people. I can't recall him being really mean to people as some others are. Abrupt? Certainly, but downright insulting I do not recall.

So I wish Season's Greetings to Ron, and a Happy and Prosperous New Year!
So this is Christmas! Perhaps we could return to t... (show quote)


He doesn’t add anything that others can’t substitute for. It is people like him that can destroy communities, companies, families, societies etc...

As far as I’m concerned, you are very wrong this time. There is no excuse for anyone to feel bad upon joining this forum just because he is tolerated by the owner. We both know that he would not last 24 hours on any other forum. He would be banned.

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Dec 24, 2017 17:47:23   #
LinMarion
 
A couple of the recent Nikon D850 groups on Facebook have become somewhat nasty as well. Really takes the enjoyment out of participating in the community.

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Dec 24, 2017 17:50:19   #
billnikon Loc: Pennsylvania/Ohio/Florida/Maui/Oregon/Vermont
 
srt101fan wrote:


But our government votes first and says to read the legislation later. So, I will continue to follow my elected officials example. As far as using correct English, that is for other sites. This ones about photography, not a high school English class. I know this will upset our English Nazies out there. But it will not discourage them in looking for and finding, and relish correcting others. This love of showing someone up by commenting on their choice of words is just o another form of negitiveism.

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Dec 24, 2017 17:50:43   #
har1ey4 Loc: Long Island, New York
 
So let me see if I understand this. This is about respect and kindness and you call people old and lonely and sitting in their underwear. How is that addressing the issue differently then the people you are criticizing? Sounds pretty hippo critical if you ask me and I agree with your subject but I don't see any difference between your style and theirs.

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Dec 24, 2017 17:59:32   #
Peterff Loc: O'er The Hills and Far Away, in Themyscira.
 
ronichas wrote:
I was trying to justify to myself about the mean comments.
If you read my note, it said "I tend to picture an old man, in his underwear, alone, lonely and posting negative comments.

I didn't mean to offend, it wasn't a blanket statement, I wasn't being mean to anyone.


You clearly didn't intend to be mean, but you did identify and stereotype a category of UHH members, and in a negative manner. I'm not sure that anyone took offense, or would consider you to be mean - at least I hope not - but it could have been interpreted by some as a blanket statement, it could also have been interpreted as mean by some. How can you be sure that you weren't delivering a message that was understood in any of those manners, even if unintentional. You can't. You did however stir the pot and received a variety of reactions. Then the discussion took on its own life...

However, in the spirit of kindness and goodwill, let's accept that your intent was pure, and that we extend Season's Greetings to all, regardless of race, creed, or religious affiliation. Even those that are sometimes snarky, sarcastic, self-absorbed, or somewhat intolerant, and try to do a little better next year.

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