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Dec 27, 2013 18:20:05   #
lighthouse Loc: No Fixed Abode
 
jenny wrote:
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"Does not compute" Repeat. Be specific.Give link and
accusation. Over and out.


It computes perfectly jenny.
You don't have to be Einstein to decipher it, but seeing as you are having trouble I will spell it out.

You said "being called "out" for going AWOL???"

winterrose was not suspended for being away from UHH.
It is a LIE to try to pretend that he was.

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Dec 27, 2013 18:42:22   #
jenny Loc: in hiding:)
 
lighthouse wrote:
It computes perfectly jenny.
You don't have to be Einstein to decipher it, but seeing as you are having trouble I will spell it out.

You said "being called "out" for going AWOL???"

winterrose was not suspended for being away from UHH.
It is a LIE to try to pretend that he was.

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I have been accused of lying by you. That is a serious accusation. I repeat,give concrete evidence by link to whatever substantiates such an accusation! Do you know that otherwise you hae NO credibility whatever, and any shred left of it by faulty reasoning evaporates as you continue to shield someone else for her mistakes...with what? What's in it for you?
You maybe didn't understand what the humor was about in reference to battererer or being "out"...baseball terms Now do you want to bat the ball or batter me or who is there or who is "out". Do you know you have another name than Lighthouse? It's a little old house called OUThouse!!!!!

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Dec 27, 2013 19:00:41   #
lighthouse Loc: No Fixed Abode
 
You know exactly what I mean, you know I have hit the nail squarely on the head.
I knew exactly what your comment was implying.
There was no humour.
It was a snipe.
winterrose was not suspended for being away from UHH.
It is as simple as that.
And now you resort to name calling.

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Dec 27, 2013 19:21:25   #
mdorn Loc: Portland, OR
 
Again we see a seasoned member starting a chit-chat thread in the Main Photography Discussion section. Is this the protocol now? Start every thread in the main section, and let the Admin move it after it gets the desired attention and exposure?

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Dec 27, 2013 20:19:08   #
jenny Loc: in hiding:)
 
mdorn wrote:
Again we see a seasoned member starting a chit-chat thread in the Main Photography Discussion section. Is this the protocol now? Start every thread in the main section, and let the Admin move it after it gets the desired attention and exposure?

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Yeah, looks like it Mdorn, I just remember the good days,ignore personalities, no one is perfect, nothing matters but the photography. Your beautiful and memorable farm scene lingers in my mind,what a beautiful morning,everything right in the world and the farmer is enjoying his 2nd cup on coffee over there in the house with the light, looking out at the empty field. All he sees is a field and a fence,then a car stops,someone gets out and goes over to the fence. He says to his wife please hand me the binoculars,what is he doing over there...oh, it's one of those camera nuts....That morning is still in my watched topics.
Hey, I'm glad it wasn't you who was banned, or me,but I'll defend anyone who was,and as for calling me a liar,that is waaay out of line. Happy new year to you!!

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Dec 27, 2013 22:49:13   #
winterrose Loc: Kyneton, Victoria, Australia
 
“It never ceases to amaze me how so many people can speak so authoritatively on matters which experts would approach with judicious caution”

Dear Nightski and ladies and gentlemen of the Jury.

I posted an image and people provided their opinions on it.

I strongly suspect that were it an image posted by one or another of the inner circle, it would have attracted much bowing and slobbering and foot kissing but because most know that I am rather not into such frivolity, attempts were made to provide some semblance of intelligent opinion.

Even a rank novice would immediately recognize the image as being a high quality portrait regardless of the media and few would venture into the limelight of purporting to be qualified to critique such an image.

We must remain aware that it is not only the OP who is taking heed of what might be said. There are doubtless tens, if not hundreds of members who soak this stuff up like sponges.

I have been accused of setting a trap.

The jolly thing was a pencil drawing!

Red faces all around but rather than a bit of self-conscious grinning and a quiet admission that I might have a point the thin skinned little petals who have yearned to have one over me made a big stink out of it.

With a most convincing display of both insecurity and a lack of maturity I was banned.

But rather than making the issue go away you put the least likely diplomat at your disposal on the job.

I posted the image to make a statement, to perhaps cause people to look at themselves and apply a little more analytical thought before providing their opinions.

I have voiced my concerns regarding the suitability of some of the critique offered many times in the past and that this issue has so convincingly demonstrated that those concerns have basis should perhaps have been treated with a view to remedy, but instead you shot the messenger.

You had a vision but instead you created a problem.

You asked too many people for their opinions and let them get too close.

I can only imagine the flurry of feathers and exchange of PM’s that have occurred over this.

You would have been far better off to take charge of your section and perhaps with the help of Country’s Mama, formulate a clear methodology and direction for it.

If lighthouse is somehow to be believed, he was not delegated to be your mouthpiece yet you were quite content to have him do your dirty work for you. And don’t think your very conspicuous silence went unnoticed, it is a clear example of your complete lack of leadership.

Lighthouse accused me (and certain others whom he failed to name) of attempting to undermine the PC & A section but I would confidently say that you and your confederates are achieving that all by yourselves.

So you want me to apologize to each and every individual in your silly little jury?

But Bmac, doesn’t care less about you and your section let alone you problems.

In my statement which is the substance of this thread I wrote “I wish to say that I regret having caused this uproar and offer my sincere apologies for any inconvenience or offense which I have caused”.

I said that in all sincerity however that is the limit of my apology on this.

I posted the image to make a point.

That the point turned out to be so decisively driven home is the direct result of the very problem to which my concerns were directed.

For that I do not apologize.

I don’t eat humble pie, not for you and not for your jury of eleven.

If the extent of my apology is not enough to satisfy you or yours let others judge your sincerity.

As to welcoming me back?

Isn’t that somewhat absurd?

You obviously don’t want that, I call a spade a spade and none of you can handle it.

And please, let none of you try to flatter yourselves as to think that I seek to be a part of the section in its present form, it's just a little too much of a circus for me to wish to be associated with it right now.

It’s been said that an elephant is a mouse designed by a committee.

I hope yours doesn’t end up being white.

Regards to all, Rob.

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Dec 27, 2013 23:09:17   #
Annie_Girl Loc: It's none of your business
 
What is the average age of membership here? 6? 10?

Take a couple of weeks away to finish up editing and celebrate the holiday with family and friends only to pop in and find adults fighting like children over who said what and what they really mean. I can't believe I came back to such childish behavior, somethings never change.

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Dec 27, 2013 23:17:02   #
Singing Swan
 
Ah, but then some of us change our spots to stripes and go on with life anyway.

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Dec 27, 2013 23:19:39   #
winterrose Loc: Kyneton, Victoria, Australia
 
Annie_Girl wrote:
What is the average age of membership here? 6? 10?

Take a couple of weeks away to finish up editing and celebrate the holiday with family and friends only to pop in and find adults fighting like children over who said what and what they really mean. I can't believe I came back to such childish behavior, somethings never change.


Did you really think anything would change? It's back to reality for you.

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Dec 27, 2013 23:23:01   #
Annie_Girl Loc: It's none of your business
 
winterrose wrote:
Did you really think anything would change? It's back to reality for you.


I think I would rather deal with 16 year old teen girls and their self appearance/body issues than some of the bull that happens here. Teen girls can be talked of the ledge, here their is always someone trying to be the top dog and throw their weight around.

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Dec 27, 2013 23:25:45   #
Cherihorn Loc: Toledo
 
ziggykor wrote:
Kinda interesting this whole issue. I realize that in today's world the values I was raised with are considered outdated, but they actually work.

I can say this; if I were going to make an apology, it would be made without condition or an attempt at explanation.

If I were in management, and I'd made a decision that would be it, discussion ended. If ya can't deal with it pack your bags. This issue reminds me of that wide open forum that is here in which anyone who disagrees is openly called an idiot at best.

Catering to this behavior indicates to me that your willing to swim in the cesspool with the OP that this is all about.

People often ask where an older member is, and why they have stopped sharing their thoughts; threads like this and the original it stemmed from are the cause.

As to "fair use" this particular site is not an accredited educational site, as are almost all on the web; therefore "fair use" does not apply.

Let's grow up people, this has become worse than a bunch of teenage girls arguing over a boy!
Kinda interesting this whole issue. I realize tha... (show quote)


I never met a teenaged girl that acted like this bunch. If anyone is interested in starting a website where people talk about photography, and big egos are checked at the keyboard, please let me know. I can't take this fighting.

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Dec 27, 2013 23:29:51   #
Annie_Girl Loc: It's none of your business
 
Cherihorn wrote:
I never met a teenaged girl that acted like this bunch. If anyone is interested in starting a website where people talk about photography, and big egos are checked at the keyboard, please let me know. I can't take this fighting.


sadly I have yet to find such a place. there are some that are better but when you combine some's work/art and open, honest feedback, it's a recipe for drama.

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Dec 28, 2013 01:56:18   #
jenny Loc: in hiding:)
 
Okay,Annie girl et al...whoever wants to come out now and claim shock and distaste and accuse other people of "fighting like children",where were you before or during the strife? I was hit with this shock at Christmas,never realizing what had occurred...I don't even know when it happened,days before,as shocked as anyone else.
If you had misgivings about this section as many of us did when it began,where were you? Did you nevertheless try to ignore as much as possible the flaws that were obvious and try to participate in the photography without the drama,and offer some of your time to try to make it work or to improve it?
Do you have anything constructive to say now that you would like to offer as a remedy? If so,please come forward with your recommendations since you sat day by day watching and never tried to help make it work as if you thought others should do it for you.

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Dec 28, 2013 02:23:13   #
lighthouse Loc: No Fixed Abode
 
This is exactly the type of post that I would expect from someone trying to continue to sabotage that forum and turn people away from it, while pretending that they have supported it and tried to make it work.

What surer way to try to make sure someone turns away, than by insulting them, and then challenging them to have input and help?

Annie, I know you are much smarter than that and would see straight through certain antics and histrionics.


jenny wrote:
Okay,Annie girl et al...whoever wants to come out now and claim shock and distaste and accuse other people of "fighting like children",where were you before or during the strife? I was hit with this shock at Christmas,never realizing what had occurred...I don't even know when it happened,days before,as shocked as anyone else.
If you had misgivings about this section as many of us did when it began,where were you? Did you nevertheless try to ignore as much as possible the flaws that were obvious and try to participate in the photography without the drama,and offer some of your time to try to make it work or to improve it?
Do you have anything constructive to say now that you would like to offer as a remedy? If so,please come forward with your recommendations since you sat day by day watching and never tried to help make it work as if you thought others should do it for you.
Okay,Annie girl et al...whoever wants to come out ... (show quote)

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Dec 28, 2013 03:20:40   #
jenny Loc: in hiding:)
 
lighthouse wrote:
This is exactly the type of post that I would expect from someone trying to continue to sabotage that forum and turn people away from it, while pretending that they have supported it and tried to make it work.

What surer way to try to make sure someone turns away, than by insulting them, and then challenging them to have input and help?

Annie, I know you are much smarter than that and would see straight through certain antics and histrionics.

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Lighthouse,enlighten thyself,Annie left a message, it was not to her specifically, I said Annie girl et al...which means,if you can read, hear ye,hear ye,all who have been quietly looking on and seeing right through you among others,doing nothing, please come forward if you have any positive suggestions for this unfortunate section which many of us hoped would succeed.
Lighthouse, your apology to me is necessary at this time for your ridiculous accusation you cannot support. This is NOT your section to monitor,get out of it now.

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