My last complaint in this thread!
Again, whenever there is a thread regarding wedding photograhy there are always several posts alluding to the notion that "the pro did an OK job but guests with disposable cameras got the really authentic shots". Or worse, "the pro did a lousy job and good thing I was there with my camera". Or even worse than that "the pro was rude, unobtrusive and/or incompetent"!
My questions are, where are these "photographers" coming from and what is wrong with them! And what' wrong with clients- do the not shop and choose the wedding photographer discriminately- if the want spontaneous and authentic imagery, can the not find a professional who knows how to do that.
Now, I am not making excuses for bad photographers but how LAZY or unobservant are some of these shooters. Of course, the pro photographer, if he or she is not a family member does not know, except for the couple and their bridal party, who's who and what they do. How is the pro to know that Uncle Oscar brings his saxophone pr bagpipe and sits in with the band or Aunt Natasha does a Russian Kossak Dance, or Cousin Sheldon tell dirty jokes at table #11 and everyone cracks up or WHATEVER? Do theses shooters call themselves photojournalists? A good shooter has an eye for the action and can anticipate happenings and be on the spot.
In my own case, at a planning session long before the wedding a day, I discuss all of this with the couple. Besides the routine elements of the ceremony and the reception, I inquire about the family dynamics and I then know what to expect. Who' s gonna get emotional and cry- whos' the life of the party, any special event within the main event. Along with the contract I fill in a WHO'S-WHO to make certain that all the principals and family VIPs- are included in the formal groups and candid shots. During the ceremony, if there is time, I look for " \faces in the pews" and shoot reaction shots with a long lens. At the party, I work the dance floor, stalk the couple as they mingle, and stay on the lookout for emotional interaction.
So...if folks still wanna have their wedding resemble a camera club outing- well they don't have cardboard digital cameras yet but everybody has a cellphone- that's OK by me. I think the family and guests should enjoy the occasion, eat, drink and celebrate and leave the photograhy to the professionals- that what they pay for!
I knock myself and my crew out at every wedding to get the job done thoroughly and inconspicuously- we try hard to get all the shots without becoming intrusive and yet there is the cell-phone Paparazzi rushing the altar at the church, darting around at the reception- it's OBNOXIOUS! It doesn't happen all the time but we put up with it, work around it, and try not to trip over them or kill anyone! It comes with the territory!
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