Throughout my long tenure in wedding photography, I have always worked in very multicultural cities and this is reflected in my clientele. There is an old saying- a bit hackneyed but true, “different strokes for different folks”! So...my “MO” or approach to the many different kinds of weddings that I cover can differ quite a bit. For me, there is no “one style fits all” scenario and frankly, I like it that way so I don't fall into a rut and begin doing the same thing all the time.
My theory is that the planning stage with the bride and groom is just as important as the time I spend actually shooting each wedding. It is crucial for me to find out EXACTLY whet each couple expects, what the want and don't want and how much they wish to participate in the photographic aspect of their wedding. Sometimes there are extremes- some couples want me to be a “fly on the wall” and prefer a strictly photo-journalistic approach. Others want me to be a “drill instructor” or a “director” and depend on me to be more proactive in the goings on. Hopefully, most of them agree with me as to a mixed approach- a happy medium! I always endeavor to dispel certain misconceptions and make certain everyone concerned is on the same page. Many folks don't really understand that elegant, romantic and aesthetically pleasing formals don't materialize all by themselves- they are not all grab shots or “candids” and their cooperation is required as to time and patience. As a result of this planning philosophy, I have not encountered a problematic wedding in decades- folks are on time, we don't engage in a “cat and mouse” kinda relationship and I have come to the conclusion that most of the wedding “horror stories” I hear about at association meetings, from some of my students or trainees and online are simply the result of little, no, or poor planning. Paving the way to a easier and stress free job is the main reason that I am still shooting weddings at 73 years old.
Like any other old geezer, I have some health issues but according to my doctor, I am strong as an ox. I can still move quickly and lug around heavy gear- I try to keep in shape. I figure I have 2 more years before I turn all the wedding work over to my younger staff and just continue with my portrait and commercial work. I always work with 2+ assistants and who enable me to do more elaborate multiple lighting logistics and the also do some second shooting. They will eventually take over the wedding end of my business.
I am a veteran of the film era and old habits die hard. I made the transition into digital many years ago but I still believe in “putting it on the negative”! OK- so we don't have negatives anymore but I like to make consistent even files that do not require radical correction so that work flow is relatively fast and easy. I pay attention to composition, exposure and white balance as much as possible. I never liked to “re-shoot” jobs in the darkroom nor to I want to re-shoot or resurrect sloppy files spending disproportionately protracted hours on the computer- that's bad economy.
So what's with this ethnic or cultural thing- y'all may ask. It has to do with approach, venue considerations, equipment choices and lots more. I sometimes work in conservative churches where there are many restrictions so out come the long and fast lenses and the boosted ISO settings. The other extreme is an ultra-orthodox Jewish weddings where the ceremonies border on chaos. Imagine this- we have the couple, both sets of parents, the witnesses and oftentimes multiple rabbis all under a relatively small canopy. Sometimes the ceremonies are outdoors at night. At the main ceremony (there are several per-ceremonies too) I am standing right under the canopy with the rest of the gang with a wide or super-wide focal length and a flash unit on the camera- my assistant is somewhere nearby with a kicker light on radio slave. Sometimes, there are little kids kinda running around- it's a joyous occasion and they are welcome. There are the vows, the ring exchange, reading or the marriage document, sipping of wine (2 times) and 7 blessing given by honored family members and rabbis. There is the breaking of a ceremonial glass and wild dancing ensue during the recessional! I could ignite FLASH POWDER in the midst of all of this and go totally unnoticed- I am expected to be there! And man- you gotta move fast! The festivities and prayers go well into the night. The couples do not see each other (for over a week) prior to the ceremony so we do separate formals and family group usually starting at around 2 in the afternoon and when all is said and done- we get home at 3 or 4 o'clock the next morning! After the ceremony we get a kinda small widow of opportunity to do the combined formals and family pictures- that's where the “drill instructor” thing kicks in.
Depth of field issues? I am a big fan selective focus- I select the focus depending on the story I am telling. If the background is part of the story, I like it to be sharp and well defined – if not or if the background is distracting or superfluous to the theme of the shot- it get blown away- I believe the new term is BOKEH!
On large ballrooms or venues, my crew will set up lights around the perimeter- out of the trafficked areas- sometimes elevated in balconies or unused stage areas. Depending on my position relative to the subjects on the dance floor (etc.) some of the lights will be mains, others are kickers and the fill light is on the camera. I can work at one f/stop and the lighting ratio is controlled by varying the output of the on-camera light- simple and easy! Out of doors- for posed shots I prefer to use reflectors rather than flash fill. For grab shots- the on-camera light, again controls the ratio.
For formal portraits- indoors, I use a Photogenic Powerligh equipped with a soft box- a flat silver reflector provides fill. For groups and candids I use Lumadyne flash gear- all manual. For lighting up ballrooms, I use my “commercial lights” from the studio- I have a few 1200 w/s mono-lights and a Speedotron 2400w/s system with 4 heads. Usually the entire venue is around f/11 for grab shots, head table, toasts and speeches, whatever! Everything is on radio trigger- I use Pocket Wizards.
I have dragged a virtual studio into a venue and ended up using window light for the bride's portraits.
Presently, I use Canon gear a couple of Mark II hanging on my neck and shoulder. One more on a tripod. I have 3 zooms and 5 primes.
The 35mm soft focus lens is one of my favorites.
Many of my clients don't necessarily understand photographic jargon and techno-babble. I don't say “multiple off-camera lighting” I just tell them I do lighting like “in the movies” and create romantic formals like fashion pictures in bridal magazines- they get it! Hey- if the are photo enthusiasts- we can talk shop with them! If they are into photo-journalism I just tell that that we are a 3-man (or woman) Paparazzi! Main thing is- I treat my couples like family and the usually appreciate that!
Thing is, I still love the work. My lovely wife (who runs the office) thinks I am INSANE for still shooting weddings. To discourage this bad habit she pointed out that one of theses days, I will come to my untimely demise right in the middle of a wedding and that will be lousy PR for the studio- a bad legacy for the young guys to live down. OK- but I will go down with a smile on my face and die a happy photographer. If I happen to die at a synagogue, they could knock off a quick funeral and have me in the ground by sundown- it's traditional! Please excuse my morbid sense of humor!
Kindest regards, Ed