LarryFB wrote:
Frankly, I would not bother to approach the photographer (either they were unprofessional or completely inept) directly, he or she was not hired by you.
However, after the fact, an email might be OK. However, if you do pursue this issue, be prepared for an illogical and perhaps undignified response.
My recommendation is leave it alone and forget it (except learn from it).
It would seem the photographer was both unprofessional and inept, for such a somber event. Unfortunately, the person who needs to learn from it will continue on in blissful ignorance, with friends telling her what a great photographer she is.