Draws me in with a desire to touch it, but with the fear it will turn to ashes. Excellent!

Nearly a thousand years ago a young Zen monk named Foyan was traveling from temple to temple in China. He was searching for a teacher that would put his mind at ease from anger and worry. Search as he did, he could not find anyone to help him. One night as travelers were settling down to sleep along the side of the road he heard a man arguing with his wife. She said to him, "You are only bothering yourself!" Upon hearing those words Foyan's mind was put at ease.