bobbyjohn wrote:
Students back then were taught Etiquette. I guess there was more of an emphasis on good manners back then. We always stood and, in unison, greeted another teacher who entered the room. We learned to respect our teachers, police, and anyone in authority, play nicely with others and how to behave in public, say please and thank you, to hold doors open for others and giving seniors your seat on the bus or train.
The nuns were strict on discipline, but fair. Some of the "punishments" they handed out then would today be considered child abuse, but we all survived, and were the better for it. We learned the 4 R's: Reading, Riting, Rithmetic, Religion. We prayed, we attended mass on Sundays and sometimes on our daily schedule, and went to Benediction every Friday. During the month of May, we walked in procession around the school, honoring Mary with hymns and culminating with the crowning with flowers of a statue of Mary. We said the Pledge of Allegiance daily.
Boys wore white shirts and ties and blue slacks. Girls wore appropriate blouse and skirt.
Do you have any memories of your elementary or parochial school days?
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Started kindergarten in 1948 and went to public schools all my life. I never saw a teacher raise a hand to a pupil because we were made to understand by our parents that the teachers were in total charge once we walk through the school doors. We had detentions and most of the time it was the whole class because no one would rat out who the culprit really was. One teacher could control a class of 40 pupils with no need for aids because we'd had respect for our elders drilled into us at home and you did not, under any circumstance, talk back to your parents or teachers. Parents today think that all they have to do is pop out babies and call themselves parents while they go off to work and employ nannies or childcare to raise their children. Granted, some single parents have no choice but to work and use whatever resources available for child care. It is rare today to find a kid who is courteous and respectful of anyone, including their parents.