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Those were the days !!!!!!.......Graham
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Feb 18, 2018 19:51:00   #
Quinn 4
 
Let us not destroy the imagination of a child, For if we do we destroy everything and the earth become like the moon.

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Feb 18, 2018 21:14:08   #
DeanS Loc: Capital City area of North Carolina
 
BRAVO on soooooo many fronts!!!!!!!

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Feb 18, 2018 21:20:29   #
Don's Leica Loc: Asheville, NC
 
I was a small, timid child. Unskilled at any game played with a ball. So slow learning to ride a bike that I had to borrow a small one from the boy in the corner house who was half my age (12), and ride it up and down the sidewalk between our house and his, with big circles around his tree and in the grass at our house. Dad teased me for having a friend half my age, but I knew I was different from the rough boys who started fights and showed off tricks they could do on a bike.

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Feb 18, 2018 22:36:48   #
bobsisk Loc: Chandler, Arizona
 
One of my favorite memories took place northwest of the small Texas town where I was born and grew up. West of the house where we lived was a 40-acre field that my grandfather owned. He owned the house too, but that's another story. One summer day (early '50s) some cousins were visiting and I asked mother if we could go play in 'The Willows'. That was a small grove of Willow trees that I had discovered sometime before on the west side of the field, across the railroad turn-around and down in a ravine. You couldn't see it from the house because the ravine was deep enough that the tops of the trees didn't show until you got to the west edge of the field.

So with mother's permission the cousins, my sister just younger than me and I went to 'The Willows'. We were having a great time romping among the trees when one of the boys happened to venture out on the west side of them. The next thing we heard was, "Hey! There's watermelons over here!" The slope of the hill rising up on that side of the ravine was indeed gentle enough to plant and it rose up just high enough that you could see some of it with a house perched on the top from our back door. There were water melon plants all over the side of the hill. While the others were discussing about snitching one of the melons my conscience got the better of me and I interrupted them with, "Wait! How much money do we have?" Including what I had, we rounded up about 25 or 30 cents. Then one of the kids said, "Look! There's someone coming from that house up there." Then they all ran back into the trees, leaving me alone.

Here's what a clear conscience does for you. I saw the fellow coming and thought, "Oh good. Now I don't have to climb all the way up to the house." I started up towards him and as we got withing hearing range I held up my hand and opened it so the money showed and asked, "Mister, can we buy one of your watermelons?" He skidded to a stop on the down slope and said, "Well, I, ah-ah-ah, I guess so." As he hunted for what he figured was a suitable melon he explained that he'd already had a number of melons stolen and figured we were about to do the same. We had surprised him with our honesty. He finally handed me a melon that was so big I could hardly carry it and he wouldn't take the money. With his admonition to go and have a good time, I trudged back into the trees. As the others came out of hiding I gave the others back their money and shortly discovered that the man knew his water melons. It was a yellow one; they're usually better than the red ones, but this one was exceptional. We moaned in ecstasy with every bite even thought we had to break it open on a large rock and dig in with our hands. Of course, in those days all a kid had to do was wipe hands on clothes and, Voila, clean. Shucky darn, I haven't seen a yellow melon since.

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Feb 18, 2018 23:35:10   #
nauticalmike
 
Graham Thirkill wrote:
Those were the days!!

Yep, that’s my era………………….

My mum used to cut chicken, chop eggs and spread butter on bread on the same cutting board with the same knife and no bleach, but we didn't seem to get food poisoning..

Our school sandwiches were wrapped in wax paper in a brown paper bag, not in ice pack coolers, but I can't remember getting e.Coli Almost all of us would have rather gone swimming in the lake or at the beach instead of a pristine pool (talk about boring), no beach closures then.

We all took PE ..... and risked permanent injury with a pair of Dunlop sandshoes instead of having cross-training athletic shoes with air cushion soles and built in light reflectors that cost as much as a small car. I can't recall any injuries but they must have happened because they tell us how much safer we are now.

We got the cane for doing something wrong at school, they used to call it discipline yet we all grew up to accept the rules and to honour & respect those older than us. We had 50 kids in our class and we all learned to read and write, do maths and spell almost all the words needed to write a grammatically correct letter......., FUNNY THAT!!

We all said prayers in school irrespective of our religion, sang the national anthem and no one got upset.

Staying in detention after school caught all sorts of negative attention we wish we hadn’t got.

I thought that I was supposed to accomplish something before I was allowed to be proud of myself. I just can't recall how bored we were without computers, Play Station, Nintendo, X-box or 270 digital TV cable stations, OR bloody mobile phones. We weren't!!

Oh yeah ... And where was the antibiotics and sterilization kit when I got that bee sting? I could have been killed!

We played “King of the Hill” on piles of gravel left on vacant building sites and when we got hurt, mum pulled out the 2/6p bottle of iodine and then we got our backside spanked. Now it's a trip to the emergency room, followed by a 10 day dose of antibiotics and then mum calls the lawyer to sue the contractor for leaving a horribly vicious pile of gravel where it was such a threat.

To top it off, not a single person I knew had ever been told that they were from a dysfunctional family. How could we possibly have known that?

We never needed to get into group therapy and/or anger management classes. We were obviously so duped by so many societal ills, that we didn't even notice that the entire country wasn't taking Prozac!



How did we ever survive?

LOVE TO ALL OF US WHO SHARED THIS ERA.

AND TO ALL WHO DIDN'T, SORRY FOR WHAT YOU MISSED.

I WOULDN'T TRADE IT FOR ANYTHING!


Pass this to someone and remember that life's most simple pleasures are very often the best.

AAAAh, those WERE the days!!!!

Cheers and Beers
Grahm
Those were the days!! br br Yep, that’s my era………... (show quote)


And putting on extra clothes to have bb gun and rock fights.

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Feb 19, 2018 04:17:10   #
Ed Greding Loc: Texas
 
Thanks Graham. I also remember lots of good things from childhood. Yes, some things weren't so great, but we human beings seem to have a way of letting the less pleasant memories fade, while the good ones live on. Some are negative: I don't recall ever having the slightest fear that I might be shot while at school, and I carried a pocket knife; as far as I knew there was no rule against it.. And, I used to bring a bow and arrows when in seventh grade; other boys brought theirs, if they had them, and we shared a great time at play period. I guess somebody could have been hurt, but nobody ever was. All my classmates respected their teachers, and most of school was fun. I guess school is still fun for most, yet our country in in trouble, and I think most of us know that. What happened?

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Feb 19, 2018 04:33:53   #
Manglesphoto Loc: 70 miles south of St.Louis
 
Graham Thirkill wrote:
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Manglesphoto
It was quite grown up to have a smart "Pen Knife" we called them, the Swiss Army red multi bladed were very, very popular here in England. I honest of God never heard of anyone getting stabbed threatened or hurt because of a pen Knife (pocket knife). Now in England we have a new craze for teenaged boys to think it's cool or gangsterish or just plain and simply, bloody stupid, to carry knives I thinkit's cool to call them "blades", to prove they are hard men. There have been a few deaths, but nothing to write home about as yet. Thank God it's not guns.

Cheers and Beers Manglesphoto, thanks for your time and contributing.
Graham
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Thank you for bringing back the memories!!!!!

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Feb 19, 2018 08:29:16   #
OZMON Loc: WIGAN UK
 
I wholeheartedly agree Graham,I was born in 1937 and when I was 2 my dad went into the army leaving 2 children and my mum pregnant, we had nothing,as a 6 year old I had to go picking cinders in the local tip to try to keep warm,although I would not wish those times on kids today it did not do me any harm,and like you say we seemed to get over everything nature threw at us, scarlet fever, mumps, measles, etc.
now if kids get any of those it is life threatening.

Also we used run everywhere, school, miles in the countryside, and we never saw any overweight kids.
Best wishes OZDON.

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Feb 19, 2018 11:14:01   #
Ring Loc: Reed City Michigan
 
Or in many cases, they don't even know the neighbor next door!

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Feb 20, 2018 08:32:40   #
Graham Thirkill Loc: Idylic North Yorkshire, England UK.
 
808caver wrote:
Hey, I'm there w/ you. Snowball fights, climbing trees, no special gear. My grand daughters (2= and 7+) come up to our place w/ the cousins and we tell then to take the dog and go up the mountain. A while later they come tearing down, yelling and carrying on off to the swings and trampoline having a ball. They then take off to the lower forest to play and explore, they fall, get cuts, no worries. When our 2+ grand daughter had to go home she was crying and saying , I dont want to go home. I think they had a ball. No electronic toys, just trees, grass and some stones, the way I/we grew up using our imagination, not needing to be protected against everything.

AND yes, we need to get our guns here controlled and not goverened by special interests. I would hate to lose a grand daughter or grandson (in Colorado near some of the shootings there) This is nuts, our president is nuts, where is his common decent sense?????

And that's for all the laughs you publish, it does make my day better.

Aloha from Maui
Rob
Hey, I'm there w/ you. Snowball fights, climbing ... (show quote)



Best Reply award is your one and there have been a hell of a lot great replies. This so far has been a great topic, enjoyed by sensible
human beings with wonderful memories.............My sincere thanks to all who subscribed and and viewed.

Cheers and Beers
Graham
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Feb 20, 2018 08:39:58   #
phlash46 Loc: Westchester County, New York
 

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