I'd recommend you first buy a Cokin Grad ND, to give using this type filter a try inexpensively first. The P-series are big enough for many lenses that use 77mm filters (I've used on lenses as wide as 17mm on full frame). You can either get the Cokin P-size filter holder and adapter ring... or just handhold the filter in front of the lens. Later if you find that Grad NDs work well for you, spend the money for better quality.
0.9 or three stop is a pretty strong Grad ND. For scenic shots, I don't think I've used stronger than 0.6 or two stop. Sometimes 0.3 or one stop is enough.
But, to be honest, I've got a set of Grad NDs that have been gathering dust for some years now....
I used them with film. But with digital, I've learned to do the same job with more precise control and better accuracy in post-processing (either using two in-camera exposures, when it's possible to make them, or with dual-processing of a single RAW file).
Filters can only do so much.... They basically all have a straight horizon line, right across the center. The circular screw-in type of Grad NDs are pretty much worthless because the horizon ends up the same place in every shot. The rectangular type are better because they can be slid up and down, adjusted to better match the horizon of an image. But even the rectangular type can't very well match up to a horizon that's not straight.... and I almost never take a photo where there's not a building or mountain or tree or whatever causing the horizon to be anything but perfectly straight.
Post-processing allows me to use layers and masks to more exactly "filter" select portions of an image. I also can change the color temp and tint, in the case of mixed light situations (such as sunlight and shadow).
As an example, there's absolutely no way a Grad ND could be used with this image....
Moving subject... so I couldn't make two different shots at different exposures and different White Balance, either.
Instead I "double processed" a RAW file in Lightroom and Photoshop to recover some of the background detail (both exposure and color temp & tint adjusted).... I first created a "virtual copy" in LR and adjusted it and the original differently... one for the shaded indoor subject, the other for the sunlit background... then passed both images off to Photoshop to use layers and masks to combine the "corrected" portion from each image. Here are the two different files used...
With some practice, depending upon the complexity of the image it might take longer to write out the process, than to actually do it.
At times I use almost exactly the same technique with scenic shots and other subjects...
Sure, I might have used a filter on the sky above, since it's a fairly straight horizon. But the result wouldn't have been the same and it was more easily done in post-processing. In this case, at the time the shot was taken I used a Circular Polarizer instead... Then I applied some graduated "filtering" from right to left during post-processing to better balance brightness of the sky... which was too strong on the right, too dark on the left (which a filter couldn't do without also effecting the fore- and middle-ground).
Yes, the process is similar to the "Focus Stacking" method you used for that flower example... but I think dual-processing for exposure and the color of light might be easier.
So, I recommend "buying cheap" Grad ND first and experimenting with using it, before fully committing to an expensive set. If you find it useful... great. Then buy a high quality set. Lee and Singh-Ray are good brands. Tiffen also makes a very high quality Grad ND (glass instead of optical plastic like the others). None of these are cheap though! If memory serves, Lee and Singh-Ray can be bought in Cokin P-series size (86mm), as well as 100mm, 150mm sizes (if needed).
NOTE: I just looked at the Cokin website.... they are under new ownership and have new sizes and lines of filters out... including some that are very high quality like the other brands. But, of course, they also cost a lot more.
Also... Grad ND not only come in different strengths... they also come with more or less sharp transition zones. Generally speaking, a "hard" transition is needed for longer focal lengths, while a "softer" one is typically needed with a wide angle lens. But you also might choose different transitions with different subjects.