I am not angry. I am disappointed that we let technology take over our work place and that it is now in the process of killing our social skills and needs.
I have no disgust for those who fall onto the trap, only regrets and pity.
The above example of misinterpretation is demonstrating how one can be placed in an awkward position w/o having said anything one way or another.
Modern communication is without dimension and does not allows to acknowledge the limitations created by the lack or personal contact that offers a fuller reading of a person intention though observations like a barely hidden smile, a tilt of head, a hand motion, a body posture... and on and on...
When I state that an avatar is a 'representation' of a deep part of yourself than one thinks, I have reasons. Between those that hide, those that want to be 'in your face' and those who understand, there are so many other things... Mine is disturbing, I like it that way. This should tell you a lot.
You want to learn about a UHH user? Take the time to read their posts w/o context by using their profiles history... There are surprises waiting some pleasant some... Well, never-mind.
This is the only way we have, in a forum, to learn as one is not capable of always hiding. I have made folks really upset by pointing this out in PM. I make my opinion on a user by reading their posts, out of context. I keep this opinion private but some time I explode (as I just did yesterday).
I try to inform folks on this here:
http://www.uglyhedgehog.com/t-29196-1.html (bottom of the page)
On a phone or texting? It gets worse, there is no historical record to back-on to, no clue as to the real context is. Now they want us to think about becoming 'ringers' to our own defeat? Sorry, I will never play that game. My 'under the rock' refuge is 'confi'. Come near it and lash out.