Mac wrote:
Seriously soba1,
If you need answers to those questions you're not ready to photograph a wedding. Most successful wedding photographers have spent a few years working as an apprentice/assistant to a professional wedding photographer and have learned the nuances by watching and eventually shooting under direction. I wish you the best of luck and hope it works out for you, but I'm afraid you're in over your head.
Its a friend of mine and I'm all he has.......