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Nov 14, 2012 16:58:03   #
sarge69 Loc: Ft Myers, FL
 
A guy was standing at an entrance to a main road. His sign said 'Will work for food money'

I stopped and said, "Hop in, I have a yard to mow and some branches to pick up. I'll pay you $15.00 an hour and drive you back here."

He said ' Could you just give me the money ? '

I drove away.

Sarge69

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Nov 14, 2012 17:32:17   #
Photogdog Loc: New Kensington, PA
 
sarge69 wrote:
A guy was standing at an entrance to a main road. His sign said 'Will work for food money'

I stopped and said, "Hop in, I have a yard to mow and some branches to pick up. I'll pay you $15.00 an hour and drive you back here."

He said ' Could you just give me the money ? '

I drove away.

Sarge69


I once passed a car with a bumper sticker that read "I DO work for food". Hilarious!

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Nov 14, 2012 17:33:23   #
jazzplayer
 
sarge69 wrote:
A guy was standing at an entrance to a main road. His sign said 'Will work for food money'

I stopped and said, "Hop in, I have a yard to mow and some branches to pick up. I'll pay you $15.00 an hour and drive you back here."

He said ' Could you just give me the money ? '

I drove away.

Sarge69


Way to go, Sarge! I think that situation is all too typical.

Some of the cops in our area have been actively ticketing drivers for impeding traffic if they stop at an intersection to "exchange items" with beggars. I am completely behind that idea, as it certainly helps to cut down on the population of "professional" panhandlers in the area, and it seems like there's always some idiot like the one described by the OP, who thinks they're doing a good thing by stopping traffic for a donation. (Are these the same morons that try to wave you through an intersection when they have the right-of-way?)

Personally, I rarely give anything to panhandlers on the street unless they are terribly clever or just downright honest about needing a drink (as a few others have mentioned earlier here - honesty is a rare and welcome treat).

I will regularly pick up people hitchhiking, though - I'll gladly give a lift out of town, no problem!

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Nov 14, 2012 19:13:34   #
Bruce with a Canon Loc: Islip
 
clicktime wrote:
mdorn wrote:
So I get to a stop light to major intersection; I'm about the fourth car back. At the light there is a person with a sign saying: "unemployed, please help, God bless". The light took about 2min to turn green. The guy in front of me had plenty of time to make his offering. Yet, when the light turned green, the guy in front of me rolled up to the front of the line before the empty intersection and stopped. Then he preceded to collect his change and hand it to this person with the sign. He finished his business, then moved through the intersection on a now yellow light. I stopped again at the next red.

Okay, what's a few extra minutes you say... the guy in front of me was doing a kind deed for those less fortunate. I guess I have a problem with this because I became irritated. I'm generally a very calm driver. I don't get angry much at all. My golden rule is to avoid road rage at all costs. In the end, it's just not worth it. There are way too many other things in life worth stressing over.

With all the organizations out there who need our time and generous donations, why hand money to a person on the street holding a sign? The only reason I can come up with is that it provides the giver peace of mind. Yet to me, peace of mind comes in the form of knowing where my money is going. Don't we have a moral obligation to be responsible with our good fortune? Frankly, I find it downright selfish to give without making some effort into where your offerings will go. Am I wrong in this thinking?
So I get to a stop light to major intersection; I'... (show quote)

It is hard to know if your donation is going to a good cause even if you donate to a estableshed organization. If you truly want to help them, find out more about them and their personal situation. Then help them in the way that can truly help them the most.

A good reminder with the holiday, giving season ahead.

THINK BEFORE YOU DONATE


SOMETHING TO THINK ABOUT
BEFORE YOU MAKE CONTRIBUTIONS:

As you open your pockets to do a good thing

and make yourself feel good,
please keep the following facts in mind:
----------------------------

The American Red Cross
President and CEO Marsha J. Evans'

salary for the year was $651,957 plus expenses

MARCH OF DIMES
It is called the March of Dimes because
only a dime for every 1 dollar is given to the needy.

The United Way
President Brian Gallagher
receives a $375,000 base salary along with numerous expense benefits.

UNICEF
CEO Caryl M. Stern receives
$1,200,000 per year (100k per month) plus all expenses including a ROLLS ROYCE.
Less than 5 cents of your donated dollar goes to the cause.


GOODWILL
CEO and owner Mark Curran profits $2.3 million a year.
Goodwill is a very catchy name for his business.
You donate to his business and then he sells the items for PROFIT.
He pays nothing for his products and pays his workers minimum wage! Nice Guy.
$0.00 goes to help anyone! Stop giving to this man.

----------------------------
Instead, give it to ANY OF THE FOLLOWING

GO "GREEN" AND
PUT YOUR MONEY

WHERE IT WILL
DO SOME GOOD:


The Salvation Army
Commissioner, Todd Bassett receives a small salary of only
$13,000 per year (plus housing) for managing this $2 billion dollar organization.
96 percent of donated dollars go to the cause.


The American Legion
National Commander receives a $0.00 zero salary.
Your donations go to help Veterans and their families and youth!

The Veterans of Foreign Wars
National Commander receives a $0.00 zero salary.
Your donations go to help Veterans and their families and youth!

The Disabled American Veterans
National Commander receives a $0.00 zero salary.
Your donations go to help Veterans and their families and youth!

The Military Order of Purple Hearts
National Commander receives a $0.00 zero salary.
Your donations go to help Veterans and their families and youth!

The Vietnam Veterans Association
National Commander receives a $0.00 zero salary.
Your donations go to help Veterans and their families and youth!

Make a Wish: For children's last wishes.
100% goes to funding trips or special wishes for a dying child.

St. Jude Research Hospital
100% goes towards funding and helping Children with Cancer who have no insurance and can
not afford to pay.

Ronald McDonald Houses
All monies go to running the houses for parents who have critical Children in the hospital.
100% goes to housing, and feeding the families.

Lions Club International
100% OF DONATIONS GO TO HELP THE BLIND, BUY HEARING AIDES, SUPPORT MEDICAL MISSIONS AROUND THE WORLD. THEIR LATEST UNDERTAKING
IS MEASLES VACCINATIONS (ONLY $1.00 PER SHOT).

I would like to also mention City of Hope, they are a wonderful group.
quote=mdorn So I get to a stop light to major int... (show quote)




Thank you for this sir!

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Nov 14, 2012 20:08:28   #
mdorn Loc: Portland, OR
 
clicktime wrote:
It is hard to know if your donation is going to a good cause even if you donate to a estableshed organization. If you truly want to help them, find out more about them and their personal situation. Then help them in the way that can truly help them the most.


Thanks for this list. If it's not too much trouble, can you provide your source? I'd like to use it, but I just want to make sure it's accurate. There are a lot of urban legends out there.

I work for a large company that promotes and encourages its employees to give to the United Way. In fact, my company received an award in 2010 for raising the most money in one of United Way's many campaigns. They make it easy through automatic employee deductions. It just doesn't seem right that the president could have a base salary in the hundreds of thousands of dollars. Of course, the argument is that this figure is low compared to other salaries for a such a position. It's clear that maximizing your gifts is hard work.

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Nov 14, 2012 20:30:18   #
Mac Loc: Pittsburgh, Philadelphia now Hernando Co. Fl.
 
mdorn wrote:
clicktime wrote:
It is hard to know if your donation is going to a good cause even if you donate to a estableshed organization. If you truly want to help them, find out more about them and their personal situation. Then help them in the way that can truly help them the most.


Thanks for this list. If it's not too much trouble, can you provide your source? I'd like to use it, but I just want to make sure it's accurate. There are a lot of urban legends out there.

I work for a large company that promotes and encourages its employees to give to the United Way. In fact, my company received an award in 2010 for raising the most money in one of United Way's many campaigns. They make it easy through automatic employee deductions. It just doesn't seem right that the president could have a base salary in the hundreds of thousands of dollars. Of course, the argument is that this figure is low compared to other salaries for a such a position. It's clear that maximizing your gifts is hard work.
quote=clicktime It is hard to know if your donati... (show quote)


The company I worked at did the same thing. Everyone would sign up for payroll deduction, then some front office guy that no one ever heard of would get a plaque in appreciation of our donations.

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Nov 14, 2012 20:58:27   #
krgatlgm Loc: Las Vegas, Nv
 
mdorn wrote:
clicktime wrote:
It is hard to know if your donation is going to a good cause even if you donate to a estableshed organization. If you truly want to help them, find out more about them and their personal situation. Then help them in the way that can truly help them the most.


Thanks for this list. If it's not too much trouble, can you provide your source? I'd like to use it, but I just want to make sure it's accurate. There are a lot of urban legends out there.

I work for a large company that promotes and encourages its employees to give to the United Way. In fact, my company received an award in 2010 for raising the most money in one of United Way's many campaigns. They make it easy through automatic employee deductions. It just doesn't seem right that the president could have a base salary in the hundreds of thousands of dollars. Of course, the argument is that this figure is low compared to other salaries for a such a position. It's clear that maximizing your gifts is hard work.
quote=clicktime It is hard to know if your donati... (show quote)


Many years ago my boss wanted me to coordinate the United Way Campaign. With a little research I found that at that time 67% of all donations were used for "Administrative Costs". I had been to the coordinators meeting and asked the question about admin costs and they would not give me an answer.
The next day I declined the request to coordinate and explained to him that I couldn't ask others to give to a "charity" that I would not give to because of the very high admin costs. He agreed and found another sap to handle it. United Way has it's finger in many corporations and even government agencies. I look carefully at any "charity" that I'm going to give to. I also have a couple of stories about so-called people in need panhandling. I just don't give to them and that is my choice. I certainly respect your view if you think differently.

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Nov 14, 2012 21:04:32   #
handgunner Loc: Windsor Locks, Connecticut
 
mdorn wrote:
So I get to a stop light to major intersection; I'm about the fourth car back. At the light there is a person with a sign saying: "unemployed, please help, God bless". The light took about 2min to turn green. The guy in front of me had plenty of time to make his offering. Yet, when the light turned green, the guy in front of me rolled up to the front of the line before the empty intersection and stopped. Then he preceded to collect his change and hand it to this person with the sign. He finished his business, then moved through the intersection on a now yellow light. I stopped again at the next red.

Okay, what's a few extra minutes you say... the guy in front of me was doing a kind deed for those less fortunate. I guess I have a problem with this because I became irritated. I'm generally a very calm driver. I don't get angry much at all. My golden rule is to avoid road rage at all costs. In the end, it's just not worth it. There are way too many other things in life worth stressing over.

With all the organizations out there who need our time and generous donations, why hand money to a person on the street holding a sign? The only reason I can come up with is that it provides the giver peace of mind. Yet to me, peace of mind comes in the form of knowing where my money is going. Don't we have a moral obligation to be responsible with our good fortune? Frankly, I find it downright selfish to give without making some effort into where your offerings will go. Am I wrong in this thinking?
So I get to a stop light to major intersection; I'... (show quote)


No comment....

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Nov 14, 2012 22:50:13   #
UP-2-IT Loc: RED STICK, LA
 
JR1 wrote:
The main words being

i'll help anybody who deserves it....

So will I, but not someone I see begging who could have more than me, unknown, which is why I give to known sources.


I would rather give to the begger than to the Red Cross but thats just my opinion. Talk about your scams.

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Nov 14, 2012 22:52:48   #
UP-2-IT Loc: RED STICK, LA
 
Screamin Scott wrote:
Ex smoker here. Smoked for 34 years, quit 13 years ago...Best thing I ever did was to quit. Can't stand the smell now when I'm near a smoker....One thing I wonder about though is, where did all the money I saved from not buying cigarettes go?


Cameras

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Nov 14, 2012 22:54:37   #
Hal81 Loc: Bucks County, Pa.
 
clicktime wrote:
mdorn wrote:
So I get to a stop light to major intersection; I'm about the fourth car back. At the light there is a person with a sign saying: "unemployed, please help, God bless". The light took about 2min to turn green. The guy in front of me had plenty of time to make his offering. Yet, when the light turned green, the guy in front of me rolled up to the front of the line before the empty intersection and stopped. Then he preceded to collect his change and hand it to this person with the sign. He finished his business, then moved through the intersection on a now yellow light. I stopped again at the next red.

Okay, what's a few extra minutes you say... the guy in front of me was doing a kind deed for those less fortunate. I guess I have a problem with this because I became irritated. I'm generally a very calm driver. I don't get angry much at all. My golden rule is to avoid road rage at all costs. In the end, it's just not worth it. There are way too many other things in life worth stressing over.

With all the organizations out there who need our time and generous donations, why hand money to a person on the street holding a sign? The only reason I can come up with is that it provides the giver peace of mind. Yet to me, peace of mind comes in the form of knowing where my money is going. Don't we have a moral obligation to be responsible with our good fortune? Frankly, I find it downright selfish to give without making some effort into where your offerings will go. Am I wrong in this thinking?
So I get to a stop light to major intersection; I'... (show quote)

It is hard to know if your donation is going to a good cause even if you donate to a estableshed organization. If you truly want to help them, find out more about them and their personal situation. Then help them in the way that can truly help them the most.

A good reminder with the holiday, giving season ahead.

THINK BEFORE YOU DONATE


SOMETHING TO THINK ABOUT
BEFORE YOU MAKE CONTRIBUTIONS:

As you open your pockets to do a good thing

and make yourself feel good,
please keep the following facts in mind:
----------------------------

The American Red Cross
President and CEO Marsha J. Evans'

salary for the year was $651,957 plus expenses

MARCH OF DIMES
It is called the March of Dimes because
only a dime for every 1 dollar is given to the needy.

The United Way
President Brian Gallagher
receives a $375,000 base salary along with numerous expense benefits.

UNICEF
CEO Caryl M. Stern receives
$1,200,000 per year (100k per month) plus all expenses including a ROLLS ROYCE.
Less than 5 cents of your donated dollar goes to the cause.


GOODWILL
CEO and owner Mark Curran profits $2.3 million a year.
Goodwill is a very catchy name for his business.
You donate to his business and then he sells the items for PROFIT.
He pays nothing for his products and pays his workers minimum wage! Nice Guy.
$0.00 goes to help anyone! Stop giving to this man.

----------------------------
Instead, give it to ANY OF THE FOLLOWING

GO "GREEN" AND
PUT YOUR MONEY

WHERE IT WILL
DO SOME GOOD:


The Salvation Army
Commissioner, Todd Bassett receives a small salary of only
$13,000 per year (plus housing) for managing this $2 billion dollar organization.
96 percent of donated dollars go to the cause.


The American Legion
National Commander receives a $0.00 zero salary.
Your donations go to help Veterans and their families and youth!

The Veterans of Foreign Wars
National Commander receives a $0.00 zero salary.
Your donations go to help Veterans and their families and youth!

The Disabled American Veterans
National Commander receives a $0.00 zero salary.
Your donations go to help Veterans and their families and youth!

The Military Order of Purple Hearts
National Commander receives a $0.00 zero salary.
Your donations go to help Veterans and their families and youth!

The Vietnam Veterans Association
National Commander receives a $0.00 zero salary.
Your donations go to help Veterans and their families and youth!

Make a Wish: For children's last wishes.
100% goes to funding trips or special wishes for a dying child.

St. Jude Research Hospital
100% goes towards funding and helping Children with Cancer who have no insurance and can
not afford to pay.

Ronald McDonald Houses
All monies go to running the houses for parents who have critical Children in the hospital.
100% goes to housing, and feeding the families.

Lions Club International
100% OF DONATIONS GO TO HELP THE BLIND, BUY HEARING AIDES, SUPPORT MEDICAL MISSIONS AROUND THE WORLD. THEIR LATEST UNDERTAKING
IS MEASLES VACCINATIONS (ONLY $1.00 PER SHOT).

I would like to also mention City of Hope, they are a wonderful group.
quote=mdorn So I get to a stop light to major int... (show quote)


:thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup:

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Nov 14, 2012 23:43:49   #
Pentony Loc: Earth Traveller
 
mdorn wrote:
So I get to a stop light to major intersection; I'm about the fourth car back. At the light there is a person with a sign saying: "unemployed, please help, God bless". The light took about 2min to turn green. The guy in front of me had plenty of time to make his offering. Yet, when the light turned green, the guy in front of me rolled up to the front of the line before the empty intersection and stopped. Then he preceded to collect his change and hand it to this person with the sign. He finished his business, then moved through the intersection on a now yellow light. I stopped again at the next red.

Okay, what's a few extra minutes you say... the guy in front of me was doing a kind deed for those less fortunate. I guess I have a problem with this because I became irritated. I'm generally a very calm driver. I don't get angry much at all. My golden rule is to avoid road rage at all costs. In the end, it's just not worth it. There are way too many other things in life worth stressing over.

With all the organizations out there who need our time and generous donations, why hand money to a person on the street holding a sign? The only reason I can come up with is that it provides the giver peace of mind. Yet to me, peace of mind comes in the form of knowing where my money is going. Don't we have a moral obligation to be responsible with our good fortune? Frankly, I find it downright selfish to give without making some effort into where your offerings will go. Am I wrong in this thinking?
So I get to a stop light to major intersection; I'... (show quote)


I agree and you are entitled to your feelings;
1. The driver should have given while the light was red, instead of waiting until the light changed thus holding up the line causing more greenhouse gasses to be emitted.
2. Is the panhandler for real? I read some where, where some panhandlers collect $60 to $80 a day?
3. I'd rather take someone to McDonald's and buy them some food. This makes sure they don't use the money for alcohol or illegal drugs.
4. I donate to charities which feed the homeless.

These are just my opinions so don't jump on me. By the way I've been homeless and unemployed but never panhandled.

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Nov 14, 2012 23:51:19   #
jjwright71 Loc: Lubbock,Tx
 
Nessguide wrote:
Screamin Scott cannot spell.....
screaming scott didnt write it ,i did ,dont know how it got here and a brown recluse is not a joke ,sugar

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Nov 15, 2012 00:20:50   #
catsndogs Loc: prince george
 
The older I get the more I belive in the saying live and let live. I drive in trafic several hours a day making deliveries. I agree some people can do some pretty stupid things. But if I get mad at something it only hurts me. The other person don't even know I exist.

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Nov 15, 2012 00:27:39   #
Hal81 Loc: Bucks County, Pa.
 
sarge69 wrote:
A guy was standing at an entrance to a main road. His sign said 'Will work for food money'

I stopped and said, "Hop in, I have a yard to mow and some branches to pick up. I'll pay you $15.00 an hour and drive you back here."

He said ' Could you just give me the money ? '

I drove away.

Sarge69


One of OBs voters.

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